Your Profile Photo Is Worth a Thousand Words

sabo ... here are EH's photo posting guidelines:

or click on the "help" link on EH pages and type in "can't post my photo" in the "how can we help you" box.

Hope that helps you figure out what's wrong!

eharmonyadvice: Does posting photos help your chances of success on eHarmony? Get the answer to this critical question plus some tips for putting your best face forward.

I would think so too bad Eharmony doesn't let me post one!! You guys reject every photo I try. :(

Oian: I agree with being able to be patient for a pic. If it is posted right off hand you will undoubtedly be judged by it. But holding out on the picture to long will make the interested start to feel as if the other is hiding something. Alot of people find insecurity unattractive. I am I guy and I agree with the woman who say some guys jump straight to looking at the pic and not reading reading the profile, not giving anyone a chance. Physical attractiveness isnt just what our eyes see, but what our mind and heart see.

They ARE hiding something. CLOSED!

I hate it that people can see my photo but I cannot see theirs. This is a deal-breaker for me, and I will probably not renew my subscription because of it.

I agree with being able to be patient for a pic. If it is posted right off hand you will undoubtedly be judged by it. But holding out on the picture to long will make the interested start to feel as if the other is hiding something. Alot of people find insecurity unattractive. I am I guy and I agree with the woman who say some guys jump straight to looking at the pic and not reading reading the profile, not giving anyone a chance. Physical attractiveness isnt just what our eyes see, but what our mind and heart see.

I believe being able to see who your talking to  is very important. Despite how hard we all try to say that the exterior apperance doesnt matter, the truth of it all is that it really does. Now when I say this I dont mean that everyone wants to date a super model. Everyone has different taste and finds different types of features attractive. If you are not physically attracted to youre partner the relationship will not work out. I know that sound harsh and I dont mean to offend and I'm saying its all about looks, but its the truth and we all know it but dont want to sound shallow. I know that I'm not the best looking person out there, but who is? No one can answere that question because we all have different taste. The sooner we all come to realize that everyone is beautifull in someone elses eyes, dispite how we feel about our selves, the better. Who is anyone to judge what anothers eyes see?

I wish EH had a seperate site for all of those who are just so above it all,so spiritual,ethereal and so not of this world that a picture doesn'tmatter...that way all of us shallow swine could just see a damn picture of who we might be talking to.

i am looking for a a woman that i can spend tha rest of my life with.some one that enjoy,s having a loveing man.i am a nice man.dont play with anyingones feelings.i know how it is to get hurt. i know that i am not the best looking man in the world or the riches.would like to find someone that fells the same.i want someone that likes to laugh and have fun.once we get to know each other i know we can hit it off good.like i say what you see is what you get.i enjoy doing most any thing.once you get to know me i am very loveible.

how do i post my picture?