A response to your comment about going over to that guys house. Well he did want sex, but keep in mind most men do. It depends on how they try. He definitely blew it and came off real "creepy" and should have waited for more signs from you. But keep in mind unless a guy is like your childhood friend and you have been to his house before If a guy is inviting you back to his house he is hoping that you will end up having sex at least in his fantasy. Thats what makes a house better than some other places you could go, privacy. A lot of guys would be happy if there was just some kissing and cuddling, and sort of a gradual progression so maybe the second or third time you "do it". but going to his house is a sign that you are interested in an eventual sexual relationship and maybe an off chance in having sex that day. I mean guys can't read your mind and we do tend to be wishful thinkers and it would probably come off real creepy if he asked before you even got there wanna have sex at my house. All I am saying is if you go over to a guys house to sit on his couch and watch a movie expect him to make a move. I mean think about it you could have gone to a public movie theater but you are together in private Hope this is helpful