Hi. I think its definitely worthwhile checking into the person complete history and family problems before falling in love with them. Its easy to be blinded by compatibility, if the person has a totally different background and status to you, it may not work. From Dunit.

bj711 knows their stuff! Chin up....try to focus on becoming the you the person you will want to be with will want to be with. We all have to work on knowing ourselves--getting to that stuff we keep putting off so so when that "right" person comes along we're not caring around alot of bs baggage that we still need to work on!God knows when the time is right and sends us lessons we can use or choose to ignore!

I know where you are coming from...it's been 3 for me so far and I'm picky! #1 was a player but you know what? I'm a widow of 4 years and if it hadn't been for him I would have just stopped but he made me FEEL again and for that I am grateful...#2 is married to his children he's a great guy but he will never live for himself children are 38 yrs old+... #3 was just a plain liar so I've been where you are and the last one for me was 8 days ago BUT lean on your faith that your Father knows when and who he has picked out for you that's what I am doing minute by minute and I know it's hard.