If you do nothing else, please make time to read-- Men Who Can't Love: How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart by Steven Carter. Read the reviews on Amazon.com, and you'll see what I mean. The best of luck to you :)

Wanted to leave you a {{{HUG}}} It's hard to believe now, but you will get through this....

Charmed..! (((HUG))) Hang in there...

Hey Charmed - oh my gosh, you sound so much like me, I wanted to share my story about the guy I am dating. I think if you tweak a couple of things and he was sincere, this relationship can be saved. I have a couple of questions before I drone on and on. When did you actually meet this guy - meaning what is the total dating time so far? Also, are you speaking with him now? I hope you aren't contacting him, everyone else is correct; let him be the one who seeks you out, most definitely!!! You have apologized and so now, as hard as it is, just wait. After a week, put your profile back up. Let me know how it is going.