Advice Profile
calmlake ...in his own words.
Updated more than a month ago.
| Gender: | Male |
| Age: | 37 |
| Marital Status: | Single |
| Occupation: | social studies teacher |
| Location: | Maine |
| Interests: | Outdoors activities: walks on the beach, swimming at the beach or at a lake, biking, hiking, frisbee, tennis. Would love to go white water rafting. Love to go sky diving again. Also love to study history--I teach ancient and medieval history--and geography. Really love philosophy these days. Music--80s/90s rock. REO Speedwagon's greatest hits currently. Love to be with family and friends. Enjoying the simple pleasures in life. A beautiful sunset, rainbow after a spring shower, the lilacs I see everywhere, cool evenings with lots of stars and a full moon. |
| Religion: | Spiritual, but not affiliated with a religious group |
| Political Views: | Liberal |
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Music: 80's rock. soft rock these days, too. TV Shows: computer time is my 'screen time', not into tv. Books: John Saul books--I've read them all! I love philosophy and inspirational books. I read endlessly, definitely a fave way to spend free time or a sleepless night. More About Me: Never married, no children. Looking to change both of these. Believe strongly that if you really like a match enough to talk to them via personal email and talk on the phone, then when you meet them you should give the relationship a chance to develop and not give up b/c you don't feel the 'chemistry' aka physical attraction. If you really like the person--and you've seen their pics on eharmony--then recognize what you've got and give it your best effort. For both of your sakes. And do afford the other person the respect and care that they deserve by discussing with them why you are not interested in pursuing the relationship should it come to that. Is there some kind of unwritten rule about going from liking someone a lot to meeting them, deciding it won't work for you, and then dropping them without any explanation? I keep hearing about this happening and find it extremely selfish and immature. How can people just turn off their feelings for someone they'd liked so much prior to meeting them? I don't get it and I hope I never do. -
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Comments
veronika4u12 wrote
at December 06, 2009 07:44 AM
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at November 11, 2009 02:10 PM
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at September 29, 2009 01:51 AM
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at September 19, 2009 09:57 AM
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