You might not have acknowledged it, but I'm sure you have always been relevant! ;-) As long as you're breathing, you have purpose! Congrats on the weight loss and new attitude towards life!

Hey! Go Aggies! I went to NMSU too! (Digital Film Production) I still go up there sometimes ( to the Creative Media Institute) to look for animators when I'm producing a show. Plus I have family not too far from you (Parents in Scotsdale, AZ, Brothers in Gilbert),just went to my brothers wedding in Phoenix, my BF owns a corporate office building near the Phoenix Airport, AND I went to the UOP for a while (dumped them though--what a bunch of crooks) So you see? We HAVE to be friends! It's in the cards! ;)

Oh my...you are not "fat"...just more to work with! (*smile*)

Hello BWR, I am stuggling myself to lose 50 lbs. and I am doing it for myself and my kids. I agree with KassKat about I know I will be healthier and more vibrant. I also don't have good responses from guys who are into online dating sites. I don't even have lots of money to "buy my dates" so I patiently wait for someone to love me as I am and be part of this new way of life. I think you are very handsome just as you are. Please stay true to yourself and the rest will follow. I would be interested in chatting with you. Look me up sometime.

Hi, i read your comment regarding dating and being overweight, i lost 45 and another 35 to go, and i am definitely doing it for me, because i act at heart and look very young and vibrant and want that healthwise..one fellow that i was out with for 11 years, i know thats a long time, (probably committment issues on his part)liked me at any weight, he told me he was attracted to my large breasts and most beautiful eyes, lol.. my point is i dated fellows of many shapes and sizes it was arrogance or other traits that turned me off...and you look like a handsome man, so there is a woman that would give you a chance...like my mom says you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince, (not sure how that works for men but probably similar,lol take care Kate