I can totally relate to what you are saying, I am experiencing the same thing with me on-line, if you want to talk, my regular e-mail address is lauririley@ca.rr.com. I am starting to believe the best way to meet someone is through a friend or I guess when the time is right for me I'll met the man I'm suppose to be with, all I have found on-line is guys wanting one thing, or they don't look anything like there pics, and it makes me want to run out of the place we've met at. Laurie