Unique, Dang, girl, you're lining up for more heartache: "bootycall?" Friends with benefits? No friend would do that to their friend. You are both using each other for selfish ends. Yours is hoping you can win him over with your charms and his is hoping your charms will ease the pressure for a few hours. He is winning in this lopsided deal. Sorry, but that is reality. Yes, you can start over, but you need to dump the user and get your head on straight about your personal value. Giving out free booty is no way to go through life when you're single (been there, done that, got a case of the T-shirts, and paid the price; of course, that was in the mid-80's, so I did learn from my mistakes). Learn to respect yourself. You are valuable, and passing out your best without the relationship that warrants it devalues your best.