there is a saying "easy comes easy goes" i do agree that it is frustuating and stressful to deal with so many questions but i think in the long run you want to find someone that will be compatible with you. If you are really looking to find someone special you have to be willing to the commitment that entitles. You should read the book I Kiss Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris. Its a great tool in how to find that person you are looking for...