The Real Reasons Men Go 'Poof'
Plain and simple. Many men lack the emotional maturity and vocabulary to sit with another adult and say, “This doesn’t work for me, so I’m going to go.” It can hurt to have a man disappear on you, but a relationship with an emotional midget is never going to work for long anyway. Good riddance.


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Anonymous
May 3,2012 at 07:33 amI dated this guy a year ago. He left because I said that I was scared of having canceled plans with my friends to spend time with him and my friends said I shouldn't have. I said I really enjoyed the time we spent together. He read it as I was not into commitment and he didn't want to get hurt so he needed to leave me before I left him. I was shocked. I explained to him that I was trying to convey that he was worth it and I was happy. He told me I should have said that and I told him that he should have discussed concerns with me before ending things for himself and announcing it to me. It was a very civil end to the relationship. Well, he text me recently, we met, talked and had a great time. He says he doesn't want a commitment right now, thinks I'm great, thinks we have a great time together, etc. And we do. (He ended a relationship I believe is the reason.) We went out 3 times. Everything seemed great. With each date, he said he would call in a week and did. The last time he said he would call and I don't hear from him for 10 days. We happen to run into each other somehow, talk and he says he wants to do something again and even asks me if I want to. I say yes, but he never calls to set it up. The accidental running into one another and asking me out has happened 3 times now with no follow up. Going poof is one thing, but why act like you are interested and want to go out again when you don't? Why not just say hi, I hope you are doing well. I know what that means.
Kevin H
May 24,2012 at 04:32 amI would have gone poof too. There is nothing as unattractive as a woman who lets her friends run her life.
Anonymous
April 28,2012 at 11:07 pmI went poof because I told her to shut TF up about her X's. 3....2.....1.....POOF. 3 strikes and your out.
Anonymous
May 13,2012 at 07:28 pmI know don't you hate that! You're out on a date and all they do is talk about their Ex.....ugh!
Spiritual Warfare
March 20,2012 at 10:12 pmwhat was very devastating to me might be a slap on the wrist to someone else but i was told by a female i really thought was attractive that i should go to school to be a pastor and that i could never be anointed by God if i never went to school and got my masters or doctrine in her book so there fore she could never like a guy like me unless i had gone to seminary or some type of graduation school but she wanted the top notch i had to be the guy who was either masters or doctrine and i could not be anointed by God if i had not done this deed. All though i have found other people when i told this story to totally disagree with her opinion on this i take it as valid that some females well be the same way to some of the guys who could of been that prince in shinning armor to them but they misjudged them like a lot of people get misjudged. My type of female doesnt have to be a top ten i prefer a female like the movie lars and the real girl had at the end of the movie that is my type of female very caring sweet and really fun to be around and yeah i was totally attracted to her personality and yeah she had pretty face too and was thin because im thin so i want that because i have experience with women who have bigger then me didnt work out. So some females and males as well prefer a female to be there own body tone there is nothing wrong with that because it can be you have experience in this area and know how it feels with someone that you prefer not to be with who might be too uncomfortable for you to be with because she is too heavy. I want to be able to pick up the female i like and and do things with her when we get married but i also want to be able to pick her up and kiss her. with out getting a stretched out back doing it in the process.
Spiritual Warfare
March 20,2012 at 09:59 pmGreen Belt Bachellor Edition 4th Doctrine Day 44
Some of the guys like earlier i was explaining in another rant like females who are porches others like Ferrari and females also like these type of cars so the owner also has to fit the car because this is what they have grow a custom to. If your a owner of type of car like Pt Cruiser well this can only take then again oh so far how ever it also depends on the experience of the owner of the pt cruiser. It's just like martial arts you have levels you have to also see some females want higher levels then the actual you can provide for them. let me explain take white belt which is the beginning level of any martial arts that i know of. Yellow would be your intermediate for some for me it is stage 2 of your beginning level your orange would be intermediate.
Now lets look stage 4 which would be our purple royalty in japan and is the second highest belt for Aikido which I have previously studied. In this case this is our High intermediate level for belts and is stage 4.
Now lets look at the next stage 5 which is our advanced Blue Belt.
Just like females and males we all have our different levels.
now i want you to imagine a mentally challenged person with a normal person ok there both white belts lets put one mentally challenged person as a male and the other as a female who is normal functionality.
Now lets take the normal and put them as a white belt as the same but yet her colleagues say are you dating him or what and laugh which now gives her the opportunity to either tell her friends to go to hell or say no now what do you think the average teenager has done in this situation? Think about that they would basically say no hes not my boyfriend we are just friends putting her now as higher level then the white belt she is suppose to be. In her mind she is afraid of being judged by her friends she wants to fit in with her friends and she might be with the mentally challenged teenage boy but she cant because her friends would laugh at her. Giving her the mentality of being over this young man who happens to be mentally challenged.
Lets turn this around now the young man trains hard and he is mentally challenged but he ends up getting him self a black belt. he is very smart but yet has slur in his speech but has been able to teach others the techniques to level up in there gees. Everyone loves this guy he ends up going to high school meets the same girl who happens to be a white belt and says hi to her and she says hi back and ask if she like to dance she noticed that no one is laughing and dancing with him.
Do you get what i am saying here its all about the levels of the person alot of is due to how the person is grown up inside some females have been dramatized and dont even know it so they wont go for certain guys because of this teenage drama they had in there lives some females wont even date a guy unless he has masters or a doctrine. how sad is that?
Spiritual Warfare
March 20,2012 at 09:39 pmHow they do it and maintain a healthy balanced life they go off there
looks and there charm in luring females in where ever they go. This is
where i know its like the devil put a trojan horse into the church and if
you watch the movies even back in the eighties you well see the trojan
horse has always been there, and God does not open up our eyes to
these happenings until he wants you to see them for your self. On
youtube there was a guy saying that brits make the best horror movies
in the world and usa cant even get to what we have, another disagreed
with him. My opinion about the brits and there horror movies is i would
say i could admit some of those movies with ghost in them would freak
me out and play with my mind but when you find out that's all they have
is basically ghost i would say because its something you cant see just
like jaws freaked me out when i was little and didn't ever want to go
into the water because i was freaked out if a shark would be there to
greet me.
Spiritual Warfare
March 20,2012 at 09:31 pmGreen Belt Bachellor Edition 4th Doctrine Day 44
I think females are alot like cars guys drive and if your bike rider well that all depends on what kind of bike you like. i tell you the truth though the bike well not get you as far as a car can, so you might want to think about investing in a car soon because bikes you can do oh so much with.
This is also goes with your mate alot of females are like also bikes they can do oh so much for you your desires that you have they might not have.
There are tons of females who are claiming there Christians is also a problem there not always what they claim. I have met tons of females and males alike that dont have the holy Spirit in them and there fore dont act like jesus but act like the devils advocate i have met guys who go to church just to pick up on woman and have sex with them and then leave after a couple of weeks and these guys im talking about are model pretty boy type and some rugged model type but all i would say are considered good looking and wear nice clothes.
Anonymous
February 4,2012 at 08:03 pmGuys need to grow up. They are all idiots... Man up and grow some balls
Anonymous
January 20,2012 at 01:44 amif only i had enough luck with women to be able to blow them off this often. i'll take what i can get thanks, i don't tend to have the luxury of choice.
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