Ten Things Women Never Want to Hear on a First Date

I don't think your staff understands that not everybody lives in the big city and has a 15-20 minute drive to get to a date. What is the purpose of online dating if not to broaden your horizons? You may find that special someone living 200 miles away. If you're just casually dating on here then fine but, I live in a smaller town presently and if I drive to meet somebody then one would hope we already like each other and that E-harmony has matched us for compatibility. If not then what is the point of E-harmony at all? You might as well sign up for another site if you're just hooking up w/ anybody on the fly. I'm not driving for over an hour for just a coffee.These are possibly 10 things a woman doesn't want to hear on a date but then they aren't really anything but common sense. Of course a date should be focused on you and not bring his buddies along and everybody w/ 1/2 a brain knows not to talk about your ex until later in a relationship and even then not to divulge certain things about that last relationship or any. Gosh is it bad to tell a woman they look a lot fatter in person? Next you'll be telling guys not to show up to a date w/ a chaw in their mouth. What if I told a woman I'd like to see her in lingerie is that a control thing? Who asks people if they have hobbies; people over 60? I ask women what they do in their spare time or for fun etc. You're more likely to repulse a woman w/ something she considers a "weird" hobby than by sharing it maybe when a guy says he doesn't have hobbies what he really means is that he isn't comfortable sharing his hobby/(ies) w/ you at this time and isn't elloquent enough to tell you that. I work out at the gym 4-5 days a week but, that isn't a hobby IMO. There are times when I actually don't have a hobby even though I've had many many hobbies in the past. You know what I never want to hear on a date; that I'm not on a date but, on some sort of inquisitionWhat I am trying to say is that if you spend a short amount of time on a chat program or w/ the E-harm letters you should already know all this garbage. Use the tools E-harmony gives you. Vet your dates thru some emails or even a phone call or two so that you're not stuck at a dinner table w/ some fool. And my advice is don't read too much into what a person writes. Overthink it and you'll be red-flagging everybody.