Dating in Toronto: Singles Guide
Whether you’re new to Toronto or just out of ideas, here are some fun date suggestions for couples in the T-Dot. (Or T.O. Or Hogtown. Take your pick.)
Dating in Toronto: Ditch the Car
Parking, especially on a Friday night, is an expensive hassle in downtown Toronto. Ditch the car and take the subway (or bus or streetcar) to your destination of choice. Besides having a decent transit system, Toronto is a fairly walkable city. Plus, a car-less date means you won’t make the mistake of getting behind the wheel after too many drinks.
Bonus: Toronto taxi drivers are pretty friendly, too.
Dating in Toronto: Enjoy the Great Outdoors
If the weather permits it, date outdoors. There’s plenty of green space in Canada’s largest city. (One of its other nicknames is “The City Within a Park.”) Explore the bluffs, stroll by the lake, take a ferry to the islands, or picnic in High Park. In the summer, High Park hosts “Dream in High Park,” its annual al fresco pay-what-you-can Shakespearean production.
One of Toronto’s best first-date options is its world-class zoo. The 710-acre Toronto Zoo is home to over 491 species. Stroll through the zoogeographic regions — take a break on the benches by the orangutans — pet the manatees, visit with the kangaroos, and swoon over the baby polar bear.
Dating in Toronto: …Even in the Winter
It’s a Toronto tradition worth embracing. Bundle up and ice-skate outside city hall at Nathan Phillips Square before heading indoors for a warm beverage, perhaps at The Drake Hotel of Ceili Cottage: both bars have year-round patios, complete with bonfires and roasted marshmallows. (Ceili Cottage has an ice rink of its own in colder months.)
Dating in Toronto: Be a Grown-Up Kid
When you were a kid, game night, bowling and ping-pong were all viable options when it came to entertainment. Keep the inner child alive with an adult spin on these childhood faves.
Snakes and Lattes is a licensed board-games-for-everyone café in Toronto’s west end. Start with coffee, end with something stronger, and show off your Monopoly skills in the process. Revisiting the classics — When was the last time you played Guess Who? — is sure to break the ice on a first date. (It’s also a great double-date spot, as four-player games are often the most fun.)
The Ballroom is a one-stop date spot: bowling, dinner and drinks in one. Located downtown in Toronto’s club district, this is upscale, grown-up fun with a nostalgic twist. Expect to spend like a grownup here, too.
Located on King West, SPiN Toronto is Toronto’s only ping-pong bar. Challenge your date to a game, then sip on specialty cocktails, or, for another adult twist on a kid favorite, share some sweet-potato ice cream.
Dating in Toronto: Movie Night
Sure, “dinner and a movie” might be the cliché date choice, but in Toronto, that “movie” makes for a memorable evening. In the summer months, catch outdoor screenings of classics on the Harbourfront. In September, line up for a star-studded premiere at the Toronto International Film Festival. See what series is currently showing at Bell Lightbox — it recently held a Grace Kelly retrospective — or catch a quirky documentary at Hot Docs. Low on cash? The National Film Board has free viewings of Canadian films, with small screens designed for two.
For a bit of a kitsch factor, Toronto Underground Cinema screens Rocky Horror Picture Show once a month. Also once a month, people line up for the “worst film ever” cult hit The Room at The Royal on College. (Bring plastic forks. You’ll quickly discover why.)
Dating in Toronto: Explore New Neighborhoods — and Eat There
Toronto is one of the world’s most diverse cities. Explore it. Not sure where to go for dinner? Pick a neighborhood and you’re sure to find something. Check out one of Toronto’s two Chinatowns, Little Italy, Portugal Village, Little India, Greektown, or Kensington Market for starters.
Great first date idea: Try a cuisine neither of you are familiar with. Whether its Hungarian, Ethiopian or Peruvian, you’ll like discover a new favorite. If not, at least you’ll have a story to tell!
Dating in Toronto: Do Something Touristy
It’s easy to overlook tourist attractions in your own city. Don’t. When was the last time you ascended the CN Tower? Take your date — and an extra dose of courage — and splurge on Edge Walk, the world’s highest hands-free full-circle walk at 1,168 feet above the ground.
If you prefer your feet on solid ground, get a history lesson at Casa Loma, Fort York or the Royal Ontario Museum (ROM). The Bata Shoe Museum is fun for the shoe-obsessed, and a tour of Steam Whistle Brewery is perfect for beer-lovers. (Maybe combine the two for a his-and-hers-friendly date?)
Dating in Toronto: Cook Together
Toronto has countless restaurants, sure, but it also has specialty food shops in every neighborhood, and farmers’ markets spread throughout the city. Shop for ingredients together, then spend the night in and cook your own romantic meal.
If you’re not super-confident in the kitchen, take a cooking class together. Once a month, the St. Lawrence Market Kitchen offers its Cruda Café Cooking Class. Other local cooking classes worth investigating include ones held at The Healthy Butcher, The Good Egg, Culinarium, and the LCBO.
Dating in Toronto: Go, Jays, Go!
Sporting events are always fun date ideas. In Toronto, it’s nearly impossible to snag Maple Leafs tickets — despite going without a Stanley Cup in most of its fans’ lifetimes, it’s the most profitable team in the NHL — so stick to sports bars for your hockey fix and shell out a few bucks for the Toronto Blue Jays when baseball season comes around.
The Raptors, Argonauts and Marlins are also wallet-friendly. Toronto FC tickets are a little harder to come by.
Dating in Toronto: Do Your Research
Bookmark BlogTO and the Torontoist. Read NOW Magazine. Skim the Toronto Star. Toronto hosts comedy shows — it’s home to world-famous comedy troupe Second City — poetry slams, concerts, touring Broadway shows, operas, one-act plays, seminars, festivals and galas on a weekly basis. The arts scene in Toronto is alive and well; be on the lookout for unique date ideas at both hole-in-the-wall venues and concert halls alike.
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evening courses
November 8,2011 at 09:35 pmI really appreciate this post. I can so relate to this on so many levels, so many things in our lives can come between us and the true purpose of our lives and items which are really important. As you continue to feather your nest, know that the talents and gifts you share on your blog are given to you from a God that made you unique and with talents to make this world a better place by being the perfect creation He has called you to be.
melman
January 17,2011 at 05:24 pmI think my very first post here, was to complain about the "Dating In..." article for my home town. They're all poor articles. Probably copied from a travel guide. We've made suggestions, even offered to rewrite them. eH isn't interested.
Slartybardfast
January 17,2011 at 10:24 amI have lived for 42 of my years in Toronto. There are more places to date, than what was listed. If you want to spend the cash, like its going crazy, go downtown, but there are many activities outside of the core, and into the other regions of Toronto.
There are three Chinatowns in Toronto. All of them are unique. Never mentioned in the article.
Volunteering in Toronto isn't a problem. I volunteered for years there. I still volunteer to this day.
Of course, I am now in my 50s and your whole outlook on dating changes. Your maturity creates differences that you don't realize in your younger years. Even when I was 42 and dating after 14 years of marriage, I had different ideals. At 52 and another 7 years of marriage, it has changed again.
Basically, what I am saying, is that the article is great for the younger crowd, but it is totally different for the 40s and 50s.
kloglow
March 31,2010 at 08:29 amI have a date in TO this sat .. but im not big on busy busy places so im hoping all goes well.... And im really not interested in seeing young girls walk around half dressed lol
Tacomalover
December 17,2009 at 09:03 amI think Toronto is fantastic too! So many great places to eat, meet with friends, or just enjoys some arts and culture. I have lived in Toronto most of my life and dont really see myself leaving!! If you havent already visited, you should do so ASAP!
gardener1701
September 22,2009 at 08:11 pm:o
Meet ups are a fantastic way to find someone who shares a hobby or financial interest or into learning something adventuresome. Web sites about "greening" the neighbourhood or socially activist groups are also a GREAT source of like minded souls. Join all the groups which interest you and you have time for. If you find that the agenda does not suit you, don't return to that group again. Find another! Keep moving on! There is a match for everyone! Just takes some extra legwork! Best advice I've ever been given: "LISTEN TO YOUR OWN HEART STRINGS" !!!
followmesky
May 9,2009 at 08:29 amI am not from Toronto, or Canada but I LOVE TORONTO! Its such a great city, full of culture , things to do, a vast of languages, places to eat, good transportation... how I see it, its like NYC but better!!
86_d
January 17,2009 at 01:54 pmhi
i love be one E harmonys members
by thev way to an oputiunity to chart with many ladies on E hamony
chopaface
December 31,2008 at 07:40 pmsome people follow traditional customs, in exchange, you can treat them the traditional way too.
otherwise, they need to understand that people must be equal.
then again, our biological standards are not equal and are definitely too far apart to say much similarity. women are too sensitive, from their mentality status to their physical aspects... treat them well... i must admit, we're highly vulnerable regardless what feminist would say... because im a feminist and i understand the truth... the truth that females are human beings who are weaker and are more subtle to diseases and illnesses... but u must understand that our hormones are extremely complex and we have the ability to bare children... sometimes we're weird, sometimes we're nuts... but we're also very loving and caring to our love ones.
Sympatica
December 26,2008 at 04:55 pmWonderful to date in restaurants and coffee shops starting from intersections of Broadview and Danforth Ave. to Pape Ave. and Danforth Ave. Try different cuisines, e.g., Greek, Japanese, Thai, Mexican, Spanish, Italian, and etc.
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