makemelaugh0806 is offline makemelaugh0806 Post #1  January 22,2012, 10:07am
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I hope someone has come across this or may have some insight on what to do.
My friend T is turning 40 this year and her and our other friend L made a decision to go to Vegas. T is bringing her husband and L was going to bunk with me to share costs. Now L's husband is wanting to come and T's husband doesn't care for L's husband and may cancel going which means T won't go either!
How do you work around this or does T have to bite the bullet and just tell L? How do you say it nicely? I want to go on this trip but it might get cancelled because of this.....
 
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We recently invited a male friend to stay with us for a few days. He brought his new girlfriend and she can't stand my boyfriend. The feeling was mutual. I spent way too much time running interference and it upset me because she was just a visitor and I couldn't see why she didn't have the maturity to fake it for a few days since the men were long time friends. I would have.

My advice is to make sure everyone knows who is coming in advance and to convince the least important person (L's husband) to drop out if he can't behave. Insult him thoroughly if necessary. Let T's husband know you did so he won't cancel.

Why allow an unexpected guest to ruin any part of any trip at all when it's not his day, or his home?
 
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girls weekend....
 
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