Angelkrista is offline Angelkrista Post #21  December 23,2011, 12:11am
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It matters very much if you believe in an afterlife, which pretty much covers every major religion. It trumps every petty, here today, gone tomorrow, little thing you can be concerned about in this short, blip of an existance.
Why is a God required for that? Technically, if you don't believe in a God, then that would make more sense!

True. It does not matter to me. I would live my life the same way whether god exists or not.
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If you are going to prove "god" exists, you need, well ... proof. How you decide how that proof manifests and can be measured is the definition... Therefore you need that clear definition of what "god" actually is in order to prove anything about it's existence, or lack thereof.

...(h)owever, your definition as explained basically then ruled out whether it existed or not as philosophically irrelevant to you unless it fit your "must exist" definition. Faulty logic, I'm sorry. That definition does not permit the ability to prove anything.

...(i)n the grand scheme of the cosmos we are no more important than a tree or a dolphin or swamp gas. Only human arrogance purports that we are. I would presume (and I admit it's a presumption!) that there are far more interesting things out there than us to occupy a deity's attention. Our civilization will be destroyed when our sun goes nova, so will everything else on this little blue planet we call Earth.

Unless, of course, we find a way to go hang out in some other solar system very very very far away. Maybe the one where they make rocking martinis, that would be cool.

Again, your definition rules out whether god exists as irrelevant unless it fits your "must exist" definition. It contradicts the very question you originally posit!
you bring up some very interesting points that i would eventually like to address (including rocking martinis- as i've never had one that i like. i prefer scotch, bourbon or cognac. straight and neat.) but for right now...

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Perhaps the more important question is, why does it matter if there's a god or not?
this is what i would like to consider next. does it make any moral difference- to me, to us- if there is or is not a god? WW got here ahead of me followed by AK...

...It does not matter to me. I would live my life the same way whether god exists or not.
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Exactly!
does it really make no difference in how you live your life if there is no god- or no god to whom we are accountable? would we still have the same sense of moral responsibilities? the same sense of right and wrong?
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you bring up some very interesting points that i would eventually like to get back to. but for right now...

this is what i would like to consider next. does it make any moral difference- to me, to us- if there is or is not a god? WW got here ahead of me followed by AK...

does it really make no difference in how you live your life if there is no god- or no god to whom we are accountable? would we still have the same sense of moral responsibilities? the same sense of right and wrong?
To me, no it doesn't. I get why religion came about (or my personal views on it), I get why some people need that assurance and guideline. Some just do.

I've always believed in personal accountability. I believe in individual rights. Everyone has the right to pursue whatever avenues in life that makes them happy, so long as their actions do not cause personal grievances towards another.

*Please note, I am not talking about beating someone for a promotion, or such similar life hold backs. I'm speaking more about imposing upon someone else's freedoms.*

I do my best to be considerate of other people, without compromising on my own values and happiness. No one is perfect because everyone has a different definition of perfection.
 
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Would we still have the same sense of moral responsibilities? the same sense of right and wrong?
See, where I don't believe in a deity, I do think some need to. Unfortunately some people need the guidance, the assumed forgiveness, and/or the ultimate consequences to control themselves.
 
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See, where I don't believe in a deity, I do think some need to. Unfortunately some people need the guidance, the assumed forgiveness, and/or the ultimate consequences to control themselves.
I think many husbands need a weekly reminder (church) or more (men's church group) in order not to cheat or otherwise mistreat their wives. Those men should be encouraged to join a congregation as soon as possible because it does work. I have seen unbelievable turnarounds after conversion.

(I saw a nature show which examined the behavior of young male elephants after the old bulls had all been slaughtered by poachers. Without anything to account to, they behaved in a very destructive, non-elephantine manner. They were also bad mates who set a poor example for future generations of males. The herd suffered greatly.)
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Angelkrista wrote :
...I get why some people need that assurance and guideline. Some just do....
why?

why do some need guidelines?
 
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I think many husbands need a weekly reminder (church) or more (men's church group) in order not to cheat or otherwise mistreat their wives. Those men should be encouraged to join a congregation as soon as possible because it does work. I have seen unbelievable turnarounds after conversion...
i am trying hard to remember where you fall on this issue. i seem to remember that you are neither spiritual or religious. do correct me if i am wrong.

but if i am right, who determines that "cheating" is wrong?
 
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i am trying hard to remember where you fall on this issue. i seem to remember that you are neither spiritual or religious. do correct me if i am wrong.

but if i am right, who determines that "cheating" is wrong?
I think I'm spiritual but not religious. However, every time I try to fully engage in a group that embraces either one of those things they tell me what's wrong with me and I stop. I do enjoy this site because people explain things without getting upset so I learn new ways to see.

Cheating is wrong because it hurts the other person, whether they know about it or not. From what I've observed, it changes the way you interact with them in a negative way. It's not cheating if there is a mutual decision not to be exclusive.

Most of the non-worshippy commandments are followed by brute animals who travel in packs. They are punished for breaking them by the other pack members because certain rules need to be followed in order for many creatures of the same species to live within the same space and flourish. I don't think you need a God to realize that. You don't even need to be human.
 
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i am trying hard to remember where you fall on this issue. i seem to remember that you are neither spiritual or religious. do correct me if i am wrong.

but if i am right, who determines that "cheating" is wrong?
Why, we do. When you make an agreement to be exclusive and you break that agreement, not only are you cheating, but you are also now a liar. When you lie you are putting forth a false reality and forcing someone (through their trust of you) to live their life in that false reality as well.
 
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I consider myself a believer (Christianity) after a lonnnnnngggg hard examination of what I believed and why. Its simply my religion of preference. I've studied others, but I prefer this one.

I dont, however, attend a church anymore, I dont believe in infringing on other peoples rights (the right for gays to marry, for example) and I also believe that children should be allowed to make a choice about what they believe, not indoctrinated.

When it comes to morality and accountability, we know what is moral in our society, but as we learn new things this changes. Its why the bible and its supposed "interpretation" has changed over time (slavery, interracial marriage, etc) and will continue to change as culture changes.

My BIGGEST problem is that without an ultimate purpose for existence, even though its not completely clear, life is futile. Ive heard so many arguments from atheists/philosophers that disagree, but none of them are persuasive. The second problem that I have is the idea of there being no ultimate justice. No matter how fair people claim they try to be, things are not fair. This should be evident to everyone, but most people have become experts at rationalizing it.
 
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