Do you believe in Ghosts and Evil Spirits?


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Diana_P is offline Diana_P Post #1  July 10,2011, 6:20pm
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Ever since I was a child I’ve been terrified of demons, dwellers of darkness, disembodied entities and the like. Some believe it is all superstitious nonsense; others will testify that such things are real.

Here’s your chance to share you most frightening “ghost” stories or debunk it all as nonsense.
 
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Energy is neither created or destroyed, but transformed into some other form of energy. Humans are simply another form of energy - bio-electrical while we're alive. The physical shell that carries that energy around eventually dies, however, the remaining energy (soul, spirit, whatever) carries on in some other form. Whether that remaining energy retains any consciousness or memory of its past life is anyone's guess. Still, it's certainly feasible that such energies linger on in some way in this plane of existence, perhaps phasing in and out of it. I've had a number of experiences throughout the years that I could find no rational explanation for. Some were merely curious, others were somewhat disturbing, though at no time have I ever felt threatened or in danger in any way.
 
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Diana_P wrote :
Ever since I was a child I’ve been terrified of demons, dwellers of darkness, disembodied entities and the like. Some believe it is all superstitious nonsense; others will testify that such things are real.

Here’s your chance to share you most frightening “ghost” stories or debunk it all as nonsense.
I believe in ghosts, evil spirits, whatever you call them. I personally have never seen one, but I know other people who have. When I was in college, our "dorms" were actually old manor houses that were purchased by the college and converted to dorm rooms. Supposedly, most of these houses were haunted. I would hear the stories of stuff that happened late at night to some of the other girls: footsteps running in the attic, children laughing, doors opening and closing by themselves, lights coming on and going off at random... These things could probably all be explained by "logical" reasons, but I really believe that they were ghosts.

Once, I went with a few other girlfriends to visit a friend's home in Connecticut. She lived in an old house, built around 1600, and she told us how when her parents bought the house, there was a grave marker in the basement. Supposedly, there was a ghost in the house (the owner of the grave in the basement). My friend's father had seen the ghost, but kept some details about the ghost's appearance to himself. While we were there visiting, one of my girlfriends said she saw the ghost, and she could supply the missing details. I was, to say the least - freaked out! Now, I have no idea if they made up this whole story just to pull one over on me. But, that was 20 years ago, and they have never fessed up to that, so I believe.

But, I have always had a very overactive imagination, and could freak myself out pretty easily. As a kid, I watched way too many Creature Feature movies on TV (you know, those old "horror" movies, like "Creature From The Black Lagoon" or "Earth Vs. The Spider"). Not to mention those "classic" horror movies, like "He Knows You're Alone" or "When A Stranger Calls". Our washing machine was upstairs, but the dryer was down in the basement. We used to take turns doing the laundry, and I would always volunteer to wash, fold, put away... anything else to avoid going down to the basement alone to put the clothes in the dryer! If I couldn't get my sister to come and "help" me lug the clothes up from the basement, I would sometimes bring the cat down - for protection! If I absolutely had to go down alone, I would run as fast as I could (sometimes dropping a few socks along the way) and then race back up the stairs. I have no idea what I thought would happen, but I know I was scared to death!

This is a really long post, but I just want to say that no one can really know for sure what is "real" or "not real". I was just reading a short story by Stephen King about a man who thinks it is his duty to prevent a sort of "evil" from entering our reality. Everyone thinks he is "crazy", because they cannot see what he sees - this "evil presence" that is "not of this world" trying to seep out into our reality. If he does certain things: counting, touching and placing (seen by his psychiatrist as classic obsessive-compulsive behaviors) it helps to put reality back together, and keep the "evil" at bay. Who's to say that what he sees - just because no one else can see it - is not real?

So, I believe. I can't say why I believe, but I believe...
 
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mitchell175 wrote :
I If I absolutely had to go down alone, I would run as fast as I could (sometimes dropping a few socks along the way) and then race back up the stairs.
LOL!

Great post! Thanks for sharing!
 
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Diana_P wrote :
Ever since I was a child I’ve been terrified of demons, dwellers of darkness, disembodied entities and the like. Some believe it is all superstitious nonsense; others will testify that such things are real.

Here’s your chance to share you most frightening “ghost” stories or debunk it all as nonsense.
I don't believe in ghosts or evil spirits. To believe requires sufficient evidence (which I've never encountered) or a leap of faith. I love a good ghost story or horror movie, however.
 
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There is a reason why we have an innate fear of dying, death, and the dead. No matter how you slice it, we kill to live and we feed on death so why does it frighten us so much? Is it fear of the unknown? What is unknown about the fact that our bodies don’t live forever?

Death seems to be the sum total of all our fears. The thought of being buried alive or waking up in a casket or mortuary terrifies us. What is it about the stillness and quietness of the now lifeless husk that is so unsettling? Oh, we may understand the processes of death hormones and rigor mortis, and we may see the effects of the organs shutting down, but we also know that the whole person was forever more than the sum of the parts that are left to decay.

Is the Spirit only the last measurable electrical impulse in the brain of a dying person? Is it the instant in time between self awareness and oblivion? Is it a thought; something created by energy, but a thing that possesses no energy or mass itself?
 
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Diana_P wrote :
[FONT=Tahoma][SIZE=2]There is a reason why we have an innate fear of dying, death, and the dead.
I don't agree that we have an innate (present at birth but not necessarily hereditary; acquired during fetal development) fear of dying. At least, that's not one of the phobias attributed to infants and young children--

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Phobias in children are common. According to The Child Anxiety Network, 90% of children between the ages of 2-14 have at least one specific fear. The following fears are shared by many children and are considered normal:
0-2 years – Loud noises, strangers, separation from parents, large objects.
3-6 years – Imaginary things such as ghosts, monsters, the dark, sleeping alone, strange noises.
7-16 years – More realistic fears such as injury, illness, school performance, death, natural disasters.
I queried my children today about their phobias and "death" did not make the cut. "Big spiders" did and "the dark" was worrisome.
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Diana_P wrote :
What is unknown about the fact that our bodies don’t live forever?
Shakespeare says it best--

Shakespeare wrote :
To die, to sleep,
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache, and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to: 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wished. To die, to sleep;
To sleep, perchance to dream – ay, there's the rub
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For in that sleep of death what dreams may come,
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil,
Must give us pause – there's the respect
That makes calamity of so long life.
For who would bear the whips and scorns of time,
The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely,
The pangs of disprized love, the law’s delay,
The insolence of office, and the spurns
That patient merit of the unworthy takes,
When he himself might his quietus make
With a bare bodkin? Who would fardels bear,
To grunt and sweat under a weary life,
But that the dread of something after death,
The undiscovered country from whose bourn
No traveller returns, puzzles the will,
And makes us rather bear those ills we have
Than fly to others that we know not of?
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A fear of death in adults is not abnormal, but it's by no means universal. Many do not fear death. I do not fear death--I have a healthy respect for it. There are worse fates in my estimation than an early demise.

Diana_P wrote :
The thought of being buried alive or waking up in a casket or mortuary terrifies us.
That doesn't terrify me at all. What terrifies me is the thought of squandering what time we have and regretting the life that we lived.

My doctor told me
if I take perfect care of myself
for the rest of my life,
I'll get very sick and die.
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I queried my children today about their phobias and "death" did not make the cut. "Big spiders" did and "the dark" was worrisome.
Any spiders make my cut! Yech! (Shudder). You have no idea what arachnophobia is like until you are faced with a spider the size of a pencil eraser that you have to strategize for 5 minutes on how to kill it. Don't even get me started on larger size spiders... (Shudder again)
 
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