sweetiepie777 is offline sweetiepie777 Post #1  July 1,2010, 11:58pm
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so tell me what is the mind of a christian man, when your in church and you see a beautiful woman that seems to glow...what is the first thing that comes to mind. Does it make you stand off ish becasue a woman of God is imtimidating or is it attractive?
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so tell me what is the mind of a christian man, when your in church and you see a beautiful woman that seems to glow...what is the first thing that comes to mind. Does it make you stand off ish becasue a woman of God is imtimidating or is it attractive?
just curious as i usally am
Please share your thoughts
Greetings Sweetiepie,

If I were in church and I saw a "beautiful woman", naturally I would say to myself "Who is that??"....but the next thing that my mind would say is "So what?". I go to the bakery store often, but it doesn't make me a baker. Women in church are not much different than the women outside of church. One's actions define who/what they really are (whether they be "religious" or not...there's a lot of hypocrisy). I would personally be attracted to one's life story, the sacrifices and resolute nature of their resolve in doing what's right than drooling at what they look like. True beauty begins from within......it's ok though to be be aesthetically attractive and beautiful on the outside, but if that's all one has, then it's pretty much curtains for me. People with physical beauty or wealth are the most often lied to, used and taken for a ride in life. Better to judge with reality than with hormones.

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so tell me what is the mind of a christian man, when your in church and you see a beautiful woman that seems to glow...what is the first thing that comes to mind. Does it make you stand off ish becasue a woman of God is imtimidating or is it attractive?
just curious as i usally am
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The beauty that you speak of would most likely come from within and would show whether in church or out. And I am totally attracted to Godly women (and not ones that just profess to be Godly, but ones that walk the walk).
 
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To be perfectly honest if I did see a girl in church who was attractive and showed a great inner spirit, I'd look away and focus on the homily. This may be a bad perception, but I don't think God would like me to use his home as my dating grounds. I would really like to enter into the Kingdom of Heaven and I don't think ogling women at church is going to get me there
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