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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #21  July 22,2010, 10:04am

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I hear what you are saying about your industry & that is unfortunate. It is a rather arbitrary industry however. It is a 3rd party industry that can be judged as to how well it is performing its function to control costs. If it isn't there to control costs then why do we need the 3rd party payor?
I am wondering if you see that health care adapted to the tax structure. Before the tax code was changed to promote HMOs we had high deductable insurance that was employer provided. There was no incentive for employers to buy expensive health plans so they went with the lowest price and though they didn't look at it this way the savings went to the wages. The employee found the best doctors for the best price because most costs came out of pocket.

HMOs took the incentive to find the lowest price away since no matter what you only pay the copay. Attracting the best employees made employers pay for more expensive coverage. The first HMOs saved costs by being very restrictive as to which doctors you saw. People hated this because they had to switch doctors so they demanded their employers seek plans that allowed them to keep their doctors. This cost more for the employers but it was worth it to keep the good employees.

This worked great in the good times but not so much in the recessions. The structure is a mess but it was created by the government using tax law. I could have fixed this with about six lines of change to the tax code. As it is, no one asked me.

We must have a 3rd party payor to get the tax advantage, it really is that simple. It is the structure of our tax code.

To answer your question about why hate the government and not big business. One was already answered, we can choose what businesses we do business with. Wal Mart did not destroy the small grocery stores, we as consumers choose to save money by going there. We destroyed the small grocery stores. That is point two, we have it within our control to control business but we don't because we look out for ourselves. It is much easier to blame the government that we feel we cannot control.

You seem to forget we operate in our own self interest. Some of us are able to see that operating in the interest of the common good is serving our own self interest that is because we see the big picture. Most cannot see the big picture no matter how well it is spelled out. This is why there will aways be leaders and followers.
 
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I don't care why the insurance & healthcare industries are a mess. I know that it is & needs major adjustment. I realize that 30 years ago the system did not resemble what it is today. Even 10 years ago things were radically different.

The manner in which you suggest that the insurance industry has gotten out of hand due to manipulation over the years is the same manner in which business has been formulated to create structure that is out of hand & not into what most would have envisioned.

This administration is very, very pro small & very small business.

Some see them as being anti business when they take away incentives that have been in place for big business but that is necessary to level those playing fields. Every attempt to adjust the system toward the individual in the business world is met with hostility. That is a large goal of many that may be considered progressive. The system incentivises indirect payment for labor through employers as opposed to direct payment to individuals for labor. That is not something that I can support.

Also, separating employers from healthcare was a goal of this President that was not allowed to take place. That would be enormous for small business.
 
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IThis administration is very, very pro small & very small business.

Some see them as being anti business when they take away incentives that have been in place for big business but that is necessary to level those playing fields. Every attempt to adjust the system toward the individual in the business world is met with hostility. That is a large goal of many that may be considered progressive. The system incentivises indirect payment for labor through employers as opposed to direct payment to individuals for labor. That is not something that I can support.

Also, separating employers from healthcare was a goal of this President that was not allowed to take place. That would be enormous for small business.
The administration says they are pro small business yet they produce poorly written laws that are going to kill small business. I honestly don't know if they just don't care or they are so busy making sure all the special intersts get their payoffs but they can't write a bill and understand what it will actually do to save their souls. I am going to act like they have souls for the sake of that last statement.

When you take away from big business you are taking away jobs. You don't seem to like big business yet you ignore one of the worst things about big business. Bottom line will never suffer. You cut into the profits of big business and their lowest workers, the ones who need the jobs the most, are the first to go. If they cannot shift the cost into the product they cut labor. Shifting the cost into the product means we pay more for the product. Again who is paying for this?

Then administration knows darn well big business will not suffer for their actions the people will. This is why big business continued to support the administration up until a couple weeks ago. The government loves this because it makes them look like they are doing something. So long as your local news doesn't tell you why the cost of a product goes up the people will blame big business not the new fee or regulation that was passed onto them.

If the administration was really trying to remove the 3rd party payor all that was needed was to remove the exemption from gross income for health coverage. So simple, ask yourself why they didn't? That change would make the only tax advantage left the use of the HSA account an exemption that is allowed regardless of who makes the contribution. The cost of health care would be back in the face of the consumers and costs would fall into line.
 
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bigfincat wrote :
This administration is very, very pro small & very small business.

Some see them as being anti business when they take away incentives that have been in place for big business but that is necessary to level those playing fields. Every attempt to adjust the system toward the individual in the business world is met with hostility. That is a large goal of many that may be considered progressive. The system incentivises indirect payment for labor through employers as opposed to direct payment to individuals for labor. That is not something that I can support.
I am curious ... How has this administration helped small business? Interest rates may be low, but as a result requirements for loans have sky-rocketed ... Net result being that even if you could afford a higher rate, you still may not qualify for the loan ... I am trying to think of any real benefits that have down the tubes ... I guess one could call the tax credit for health insurance a benefit ... But when the average wage of employees (minus owners) has to be less than 25k to qualify, that puts a damper on things ...

Small business owners are worried about what laws may be changing requiring them to pay for insurance they can't afford ... Net result being that a lot of companies move to a 1099 basis (referring to very small businesses) ...

Now, if how they are helping small businesses is by removing benefits or adding on taxes to larger businesses, there might be some argument there ... But big business can afford to hire tax attorneys to work to make up for the difference ... Joe's Donuts has trouble hiring a team of tax attorneys to try save an extra 10k a year ...
 
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The administration says they are pro small business yet they produce poorly written laws that are going to kill small business. I honestly don't know if they just don't care or they are so busy making sure all the special intersts get their payoffs but they can't write a bill and understand what it will actually do to save their souls. I am going to act like they have souls for the sake of that last statement.

When you take away from big business you are taking away jobs. You don't seem to like big business yet you ignore one of the worst things about big business. Bottom line will never suffer. You cut into the profits of big business and their lowest workers, the ones who need the jobs the most, are the first to go. If they cannot shift the cost into the product they cut labor. Shifting the cost into the product means we pay more for the product. Again who is paying for this?

Then administration knows darn well big business will not suffer for their actions the people will. This is why big business continued to support the administration up until a couple weeks ago. The government loves this because it makes them look like they are doing something. So long as your local news doesn't tell you why the cost of a product goes up the people will blame big business not the new fee or regulation that was passed onto them.

If the administration was really trying to remove the 3rd party payor all that was needed was to remove the exemption from gross income for health coverage. So simple, ask yourself why they didn't? That change would make the only tax advantage left the use of the HSA account an exemption that is allowed regardless of who makes the contribution. The cost of health care would be back in the face of the consumers and costs would fall into line.
That is absolutely why I would like to see a shift toward the individual in the job market.

Personally, I don't need anyone else for a job. I should not be at a disadvantage systemically.

People will adjust to selling their skills on their own if that adjustment is allowed.

Why does someone say that there are no jobs? Because our system is set up for individuals to be dependent.

Our system ensures that dependency.
 
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I realize that systemic adjustments (yet still entirely capitalist) would take an adjustment period.

In the long-term that would be quite beneficial to the middle class.

As far as the government not taking that giant step... well for the same reason that all change happens very slowly & in pieces. Large change such as that is not welcomed by a scared public.
 
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Rand_011 wrote :
I am curious ... How has this administration helped small business? Interest rates may be low, but as a result requirements for loans have sky-rocketed ... Net result being that even if you could afford a higher rate, you still may not qualify for the loan ... I am trying to think of any real benefits that have down the tubes ... I guess one could call the tax credit for health insurance a benefit ... But when the average wage of employees (minus owners) has to be less than 25k to qualify, that puts a damper on things ...

Small business owners are worried about what laws may be changing requiring them to pay for insurance they can't afford ... Net result being that a lot of companies move to a 1099 basis (referring to very small businesses) ...

Now, if how they are helping small businesses is by removing benefits or adding on taxes to larger businesses, there might be some argument there ... But big business can afford to hire tax attorneys to work to make up for the difference ... Joe's Donuts has trouble hiring a team of tax attorneys to try save an extra 10k a year ...
More drastic & visible changes would have taken place if allowed. They have made strides though.

Their push toward such changes is & will continue to the benefit of small business.

There is no way that it is not clear that the administration has been held in check to a very large degree. They are met with resistance at every turn. It is just a fact that the public will only allow incremental change.
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That is absolutely why I would like to see a shift toward the individual in the job market.

Personally, I don't need anyone else for a job. I should not be at a disadvantage systemically.

People will adjust to selling their skills on their own if that adjustment is allowed.

Why does someone say that there are no jobs? Because our system is set up for individuals to be dependent.

Our system ensures that dependency.
It is not the system it is our personalities that ensure the dependency. Someone who is not a risk taker is going to like things just as they are, they are happy with the structure. Someone who is a risk taker understands their value and how to market it. They are also willing to take the risk that it may take longer or be harder to create a job for themself but they are willing to try.

Look at how many people there are unemployed that won't even take the risk that education will pay off. There are fields that have positions that remain unfilled because no one is qualified. Some people just won't bet on their value, we can't make them no matter what we do to the system.

If you want to change the system the way you describe I suggest you find schools to mentor in. The only way we are going to change anything is to change the next generation. We can still mold them, adults are hardened in their ways.
 
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bigfincat, trying to grasp and respond to your core point (and I get the Glenn Beck case in point), you might find this article interesting. I'm going to have to see whether there have been any updates.

It compares the U.S. to various other countries in terms of something I think would fit your rigid code/rules/roles idea. It's hard to excerpt meaningfully from the article, so I do recommend reading it all!

environics research group - media room
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Here, father doesn't know best
The Globe and Mail,
Wednesday, July 4, 2001

by: Michael Adams

... Nearly 20 years ago, my colleagues at Environics in Toronto and CROP in Montreal began a study of Canadian social values. In our first survey of Canadian values in 1983, we asked Canadians if they strongly or somewhat agreed or disagreed that: "The father of the family must be the master in his own house." ...

The "father must be master" question has become legendary at Environics. We love it because it measures a traditional, patriarchal attitude to authority in our most cherished institution: the family. ...

That first time {1983}, a total of 42 per cent of Canadians agreed that the father should be master ...

... Nineteen ninety-two was the first year we began conducting social-values research in the United States, the world capital of individualism and egalitarianism, of civil rights movements and affirmative action (remember, an American was the first to deflower the feminine mystique). We speculated that the United States would be ahead of Canada and France on this trend.

We found to our surprise that 42 per cent of Americans told us the father should be master, while 57 per cent disagreed and 1 per cent had no opinion.

{between 1992 and 2000, the percentage of people agreeing with the statement in all other countries surveyed declined -- e.g. in France: from 61% in 1975 to 30% in 2000.}

Meanwhile, we found that where 42 per cent of Americans believed the father should be master in 1992, the number increased to 44 per cent in 1996. We wondered if this was a statistical anomaly. We went back into the field in 2000 ... This time, 48 per cent of Americans said the father of the family must be master in his own home; 51 per cent disagreed and 1 per cent had no opinion. We were stunned.

The details were even more stunning: Forty-three per cent of American women agreed with the statement -- up nine points from 1992. And among baby boomers aged 35 to 44, 48 per cent said dad should be boss, up 12 points over 1992. This was the biggest increase of any age cohort. (Only 15 per cent of younger Canadian boomers take this position -- meaning that the gap between younger Canadian boomers and Americans in this cohort is an astounding 33 points.)
I would agree that this question -- this particular attitude -- is a bit of a bellwether in terms of rigid codes/rules/roles.

And the fact seems to be that the problem you're alluding to, as measured by this particular attitude at least, is much more serious in the U.S. than in other comparable countries, and, at least as of 2001, was getting worse.

Am I on the right track here?
 
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I don't care if someone lives by a code or even why they do so.
I think my point may not have been clear.

While codes for collective living are likely (and in my view) wise and necessary -- to govern our public relationships with one another as individuals, and between us as individuals and "us" collectively -- rigid codes that individuals adopt for their own conduct and then insist that others follow are another matter. And I think the why of it is important, because I think those codes are invented and propagated by people/groups with something to gain by controlling others and persuading some people to adopt their codes and then to seek to regulate others' lives by them.

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It seems that they may view others actions from that frame of reference though.
And the question is always: cui bono? Who profits? The individuals who are persuaded to adhere to a code may, if it gives them comfort that uncertainty doesn't, or if imposing the code on others gives them a feeling of power where otherwise they would have to recognize their own powerlessness. Certainly the people who invent and try to propagate such codes benefit by controllling others.

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It also seems that in many cases some may prefer that type of structure in an economic system or a familial system. Those types of structures fly in the face of freedom in the view of many. Structure, by definition, is restrictive.
The types of structures we seem to be talking about (like patriarchy in the family) certainly do oppress many people.

Of course, although structure may be restrictive by definition, structure is not always a bad thing. Loonytarians notwithstanding, speed limits are actually beneficial.
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