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I don't think anyone here is suggesting that we drop everything America stands for and turn our country into a socialist state. The discussion began why is socialism a dirty word here, the reason we are even talking about it is that our current president has been described as socialist in nature because he has advocated national health care. There are good socialist programs that do not make working just a thing to do to pay for the poor anymore than we already do today. I know a lot of people who work at Walmart and social services and construction and I don't know anyone who owns a boat, goes on cruises, or buys everyone in their family ATV's on it. If both of those authors were out to prove a point, so was the media who ran that clip. Are we really going to say that 20/20 is the most subjective show on television. It's just as conservative as Fox network they just don't fly their flag so proudly. Our country IS paying for people who don't want to work. (I once went to get Medicaid when I was pregnant and was astounded by the Cadillacs driven by people on welfare). That's where part of our tax money are going now. And we are not that dirty socialist word. Right?!
Right, and you forgot about the welfare given to big corporations, first in subsities to keep them afloat, and then in huge bailouts when they finally do fail. In pure capitalism, these companies would have to manage themselves properly, provide the goods and services their customers want, and for good measure, in order to weather any economic storm, have good cash or credit reserves. The consequence to not doing these things would be to face economic ruin.

I think It's funny, (in a sad way) that people object to their tax dollars going to help the sick, as in a national health care system, but have no outrage of their dollars going into the pocket of an already rich CEO of a company who's products they don't want to spend their money on in the first place, and was driven into the ground by said CEO.

Maybe people are worried that national health care will turn the country socialist, but we already have socialist programs in this country.
- June 24th, 2009, 08:29 pm
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Most of the people here appear to oppose the bailouts. Also:

Most of the “bailouts” are loans, most of which will be repaid. The unrepaid cost will be minimal, relative to the size of the economy. The portion which is not loans, is mostly to benefit middle and lower class people (mortgage modifications, extended unemployment, etc.)

The “bailouts” are to avert greater systemic damage to the economy; as such, they are benefiting everyone (for sure, we can debate if they are well-designed for that purpose.) keep in mind that the lost tax revenue and increased benefit payments associated with the downturn exceed the “bailouts.”

The putative beneficiaries of “bailouts” are already disproportionately taxed.

Their cost is minor compared to the cost of nationalized health care – or the Medicare bankruptcy which we already face.

“Bailouts” are not something we’re paying for – they are something designed to halt and reverse a severe recession. Their form is much more debatable, of course.
- June 24th, 2009, 08:58 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Most of the people here appear to oppose the bailouts. Also:

Most of the “bailouts” are loans, most of which will be repaid. The unrepaid cost will be minimal, relative to the size of the economy. The portion which is not loans, is mostly to benefit middle and lower class people (mortgage modifications, extended unemployment, etc.)

The “bailouts” are to avert greater systemic damage to the economy; as such, they are benefiting everyone (for sure, we can debate if they are well-designed for that purpose.) keep in mind that the lost tax revenue and increased benefit payments associated with the downturn exceed the “bailouts.”

The putative beneficiaries of “bailouts” are already disproportionately taxed.

Their cost is minor compared to the cost of nationalized health care – or the Medicare bankruptcy which we already face.

“Bailouts” are not something we’re paying for – they are something designed to halt and reverse a severe recession. Their form is much more debatable, of course.
If a bailout is a loan, and it's eventually repaid then that is certainly ok, but isn't a subsity still corporate welfair, paid for by our tax dollars, and indeed, a socialist plan? And if subsities were supposed to do the same thing as bailouts, and prevent systemic damage to the economy, they are a failed policy.

And, if national health care is too expensive, how does it compare to the money spent on corporate welfair, failed weapons systems and other pork-barrel projects, and the billions in foreign aid we send to countries that hate us.

I think there is money for health care, we just need to get our spending priorities straight.
- June 24th, 2009, 09:38 pm
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As long as they had the will to succeed. You do have to have a little common sense as well.
My experience as a cop leads me to believe that "common sense, is not common."
- June 24th, 2009, 09:52 pm
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I see that style of life is working out well in African nations.

You also didn't answer her question... how is it possible for the kids to go to school if the choices are put a roof over their head and food on the table vs pay for school?

I don't know if your comment about Africa was a joke or not but it is not working out well,the answer to that question is that we all make choices in life that bring consequences,the removal and transfer of consequences from one person to another resulting in the gross irrsesponsability we see in society today is in part responsable for people having to make those choices.The fact is in America there is help for such situations...so the question realy has no validity.
- June 25th, 2009, 06:33 am
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The1Tomcat wrote :
My experience as a cop leads me to believe that "common sense, is not common."
Then let those who lack common sense bear the burden of it
- June 25th, 2009, 06:33 am
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Oh, you wacky Canadians and your government health care and stuff!

The word socialism was hardly in the discourse until the recent election. Now there is a contingent on the right in the U.S. that brandishes it about as a 4-letter word in an effort to invoke fear and foster dissent against the current administration. It is primarily fear mongering as far as I can tell, because the likelihood that the U.S. is going to change its basic form of government is, well, not big. But, it has become quite the rallying cry nonetheless...

There are some folks (including several who post here) who simply hate government no matter what it does, and who believe that virtually any time that government has its fingers in something it is a bad thing. Taxes are seen as robbery by the government to feed a bloated system that gives little back for what it takes. The government is in fact viewed as the enemy of the people much moreso than it is "of" the people.

Well, that's what I've picked up from reading these forums, anyway...lol.

And likewise what i have picked up is that there are some people who love government and see it as the answer to everything,to want to keep what one has earned is not hatred of government,it is a reflection of the principal of private property contained in the Constitution and other founding documents,to want to be free to pursue excellence and acheivement without being required to pay for those who would rather not pursue those things is not hatred it is a reflection of the principal of personal responsability...."hate" is just a P.C buzzword used to marginalize,denounce and ridicule anyone who opposes the liberal socilaist and their agenda

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- June 25th, 2009, 06:47 am
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Right, and you forgot about the welfare given to big corporations, first in subsities to keep them afloat, and then in huge bailouts when they finally do fail. In pure capitalism, these companies would have to manage themselves properly, provide the goods and services their customers want, and for good measure, in order to weather any economic storm, have good cash or credit reserves. The consequence to not doing these things would be to face economic ruin.

I think It's funny, (in a sad way) that people object to their tax dollars going to help the sick, as in a national health care system, but have no outrage of their dollars going into the pocket of an already rich CEO of a company who's products they don't want to spend their money on in the first place, and was driven into the ground by said CEO.

Maybe people are worried that national health care will turn the country socialist, but we already have socialist programs in this country.

Oversimplification is not the answer either,corporations produce industry and jobs...they are the horse that pulls the cart...who doesn't want to spend their money on products produced by corporations ? what is the average amount of consumer debt in America for everything corporations produce ? I agree that the bailouts were a bad idea...this bad idea started with a republican and is being carried on by a democrat...nuff said.The fact is that corporations and industry pay for everything...they are the horse that pulls the cart and to reduce the arguement to the "little guy" vs the "the man" is class envy and warfare at best and will produce only more povert and misery for the little guy....they will win.
- June 25th, 2009, 06:56 am
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To answer Don't Tread on Me, both. I do NOT want this country to be a communist socialist regime. I believe in free enterprise and a free market to an extent. There are a lot of people who take advantage of free market and hurt the economy and the middle class that depend on them for jobs. Second I DO NOT believe that socialism itself is a dirty word. I believe that we have a lot of socialist programs in this country that need a complete overhaul because they are being abused by too many people who do not need it, just want it. People who try to work in this country cannot get help (like me) people who do not work in this country can get health care, food stamps, and TANF (money) from us the taxpayers. I do think that nationalized health care would be good since insurence companies have been running the price up on health care for years. (Because they won't pay what it's worth, DR's hospitals, and care centers are forced to charge people without insurence huge amounts that are extremely over priced. Don't you see this as backwards?! If you have insurence everything is cheaper, if you don't you pay 3X the amount?! A back procedure that cost my insurence co. 500, cost me 1700 when they refused to pay for one. This is insane! There are socialist programs that would help this country not hurt it, and to say that this country will go back to being the manufacturing giant it once was is to live in the past. Education and Health Care and Government are the only economic areas that are growing. Help people so that in helping themselves they made the economy stronger, not by giving them handouts, but by giving them an education they need to make money and put into the economy. It seems like you guys would get behind that idea.
- June 25th, 2009, 10:11 am
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If I call a kitten a cute doggy and tell everyone that this is my new dog it doesn't make the cat a dog .

The question was "Why is socialism bad?" and was explained as "Why is socialism a dirty word in America?" The answer was: "Because socialism is in every way against American ideals and culture, has failed in every country it's been attempted, and is theoretically a terrible system."

And then we start talking about welfare and public transportation and health care like they have anything to do with government ownership of industry. That's a key difference between socialism and liberalism. Socialism is designed to give the workers "control" over the government by pretending to say the plant is owned by the people and not the bosses. In reality the bosses become the government but that's not the point.

Welfare was started in the U.S. in 1930. In the mid 1940s a little event known as the "Cold War" started in the U.S. If you remember American history you probably know that the Cold War (and many subsequent wars, such as the Korean War and Vietnam) were oriented around the American fear of communism and socialism. Yet during this entire time we had welfare. So my grandparents, who were absolutely horrified at the idea of the USSR (once again, a socialist state), had a "socialist" program going on in their own country? Yeah, right. They didn't see it as socialist because it isn't socialist.

The question wasn't "should we have social programs." The question was "why is socialism a bad word?" Socialism is a bad word because that represents a terror in the American people that allowed things like the McCarthy trials. Hundreds of thousands of Americans died in opposition to socialist and communist ideas. For years we refused official trade with countries like Cuba and China simply because they were socialist (which we called communist and they called socialist).

So yeah, socialist is a bad word. It's a word with energy similar to "terrorist" today. I understand that the "pro-socialist" individuals on this thread aren't actually advocating a revolution to North Korea's wonderful system. You're advocating liberal social programs as democrats have been doing ever since the parties flip-flopped post-Civil War. There are those against those things too and always have been; liberal vs. conservative is no where near a new debate.

So if you want to know why I, and other people, are against the social democracy or liberalism I can answer that question in a very different manner. But if you want to know why I'm against socialism I can't pretend the term means something other than what it does. Socialism represents a hundred years of death. It represents World War II, it represents Stalin, it represents North Korea, it represents Mao's China, it represents starvation, death camps, ethnic cleansing, rebellion, and fear. These are the symbols many Americans associate with when they hear "socialist state."

So yes, we are arguing semantics. But without agreement on the terms this discussion can't really go forward. Maybe I'm just being stubborn. Maybe all the history and political science studies are objecting to the terminology and it's not really relevant. I feel like a doctor trying to discuss the flu and everyone is calling it cancer. Even if you talk about flu symptoms and ask why you can't just take some medicine and get over your cancer the word just doesn't work. It means something else. So when I say "um, you can't cure cancer..." and I get "sure you can, my friend got over his stomach cancer the other day with some rest and aspirin!" I'm a bit perturbed.

Oh well. Someone find that beating dead horse thing, quote this, and we'll leave it at that . It appears I've been arguing against cancer while people are talking about the flu. Oops. I still stand by my arguments against socialism. Continue on your discussion of liberalism *cough* I'm sorry socialism *cough* and have a good time .

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