Interview with Nicholas Sparks: What I've Learned About Love


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RobFrost is offline RobFrost Post #21  September 28,2008, 6:02am
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All good points.....but thrown out like an armchair quarterback. Its just as easy and justifiable to sayit doesn't counterbalance, it creates the risk of imbalance. Life is like a tightrope, and love and its attendant vulnerability takes away the safety net. It isinfinately more exhilarating while traversing the rope, and upon arrival at the other side, to not have the net, to be sure,but.....when you fall....
 
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I think that you do know within a short amount of time-if your heart and mind is open and you're listening to the little voice in your head saying 'run' or 'no' or "I've just fallen in love'. So many of us don't do that and end up making horrible mistakes. I've learned that when I listen to my intuition it has never been wrong. I have made the wrong choice, but the little voice in my head/heart knew the truth. You may think this simplistic, but I believe it.
 
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I was married to the love of my life for 23 yrs. Until last winter, I went through empty nest sydrom, meaphause & Depression......I unloved my husband, for some reason....& drove him away from loving me. I went west to see my mother, instead of going on a cruise he asked me to go on at the last minute. While away, he looked up his HS Sweetheart on Classmates, she was seperated, & when I returned, he told me he didn't love me anymore. I begged to stay,got emotionally messed up & ended up returning to where I once lived out west! Boy was that dumb! Now they're having a wonderful afair, traveling, etc. I'm hurt & trying to move on.


 
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