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Who is she/he? Why do we need a rebound person after major breakup? Is it fair? What are the symptoms of being a rebound gal/guy?
 
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now here is a very touchy subject,Lets face it everyone likes to feel loved don't they?and when your use to having someone laying next to you at nite a pillow just don't cut it for you does it? there is nothing like the feeling of a arm flopping over you in the middle of the nite while your sleeping,and the warmth of a body that a pillow just don't have.Now as for is it fair no it's not but often enough we all fall short of what we are really looking for after a major break-up,most people don't think with there heads and hearts after a major break-up anyway they are just looking for away to ease the pain of the break-up and thats how people get hurt.Just be honest and have a open line of commuication with the person you are about to become involved with so they know what is going on and where your mind is at that time,and expect the same from them.
 
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Happily_Married_Man,607455 wrote :

now here is a very touchy subject,Lets face it everyone likes to feel loved don't they?and when your use to having someone laying next to you at nite a pillow just don't cut it for you does it? there is nothing like the feeling of a arm flopping over you in the middle of the nite while your sleeping,and the warmth of a body that a pillow just don't have.Now as for is it fair no it's not but often enough we all fall short of what we are really looking for after a major break-up,most people don't think with there heads and hearts after a major break-up anyway they are just looking for away to ease the pain of the break-up and thats how people get hurt.Just be honest and have a open line of commuication with the person you are about to become involved with so they know what is going on and where your mind is at that time,and expect the same from them.
It is not clear why real love cannot grow out of the physical attachment you described. Why this first person after divorce is often not becoming anything long-term? May be it is just me, but I would not get involved with anybody without feeling any chemistry at all. Rebound or not, it would not be just a random person, right? I am not talking about one night stands. Something should have clicked there at the very start. Why is it doomed then?


I had a relationship right after divorce. It lasted 2 or 3 years, and then we kinda went our own separate ways. I did, and he is still upset with me, after 10+ years... Was it a rebound one for me?
 
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