WeDesignOurLives is offline WeDesignOurLives Post #1  April 9,2010, 5:48pm
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Which are you?... in the different aspects of your life?

Where have you been the victim and struggle to become the hero? (could be losing weight for example... that's mine... eating out of shame and self-pity).
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #2  April 9,2010, 7:14pm
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I think that I am neither. I don't know what that makes me.
 
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meri75 wrote :
I think that I am neither. I don't know what that makes me.
Victim or Hero to me is what you want to make of your life and see yourself either struggling and giving up or conquering your ideas and coming out ahead of the game.

I am sure you have from time to time as life is a constant struggle, we all have, in my case I consider myself a conqueror, not a victim nor a hero, a conqueror. I am very persistant on my ideas if they are good, sometimes they are not ,but when they are boy do I pursue them.
 
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I have been both, but I prefer to be a Hero.
In my personal life, I have been a victim, because I have too many health issues to mention here, which made me undateable for a L...O....N....G time. I've worked through some of them so it makes me a HERO.


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I have been both in the past 5 years.

I became a victim when my late wife got sick of liver cancer and past away, lost all our savings, lost my job, and almost lose my sanity.

I became a hero when after much help from church, family and friends I was able to start my own business, take care of my three children, and not to depend on a salary.
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #6  September 21,2010, 8:43pm
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I think I'm in the middle. I've been the Victim, but I'm still doing battle against the world, so I can't really say I'm the Hero yet. I guess that means I'm neither, I'm a Warrior.
 
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