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Ok, but bulldog is arrogant, not stubborn, right? You say you are opinionated...I say you might be passionate...you said the difference but I still don't know which you are.

Oversensitive is both reading stuff that isn't there and overreacting to stuff that is.
 
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WeDesignOurLives wrote :
Ok, but bulldog is arrogant, not stubborn, right? You say you are opinionated...I say you might be passionate...you said the difference but I still don't know which you are.

Oversensitive is both reading stuff that isn't there and overreacting to stuff that is.
Wow - bulldog in the US is a term to describe an arrogant person? How interesting. Here it usually means someone who is stubborn or tenacious. Maybe I'm a mix of both opinionated and passionate! I could live with that.

I don't know you - you come across more analytical than emotional in the posts of yours I've read to date.
 
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Hmmm, had to actually think a minute, I am not used to checking myself out.
I am shy in real life,,, I blend right into the wall, unless I know who I am with, then I enjoy myself.
I have a weight problem which is not horrible but I am working on that.
I had the sex relationship,, after a while it not all its cracked up to be, I let him go, even though he did not want to go.
I felt like we were just using each other, LOL , and technically we were!!
Now I am back to square one, looking for my knight on a white horse.
But I am realistic, I know no one perfect is out there no matter who says they are perfect.
 
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* Personal choice
* Too fussy
* Too busy
* And when I do see someone I thinks nice I'm too shy
* Also most men automatically think I am taken

Seriously he's out there somewhere trying to find me .... Hurry !!
 
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No offense intended, but seems to me there's an awful lot of that these days. Where even aside from chemistry or compatibility, there's this sort of "gauntlet" of "stuff" that men are expected to get thru first, which all basically seems to come down to "I don't know what I want, but someone persuade me/convince me".

So can you really blame them if alot of guys just go, "well, if you don't know whether you're even available, then how do you expect me to?"....
 
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Why don't I have a partner? My joke to myself is that no man can tame me!

But in reality, I just haven't met the right one.

Or maybe I have, and I just don't know it.
 
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meri75 wrote :
Wow - bulldog in the US is a term to describe an arrogant person? How interesting. Here it usually means someone who is stubborn or tenacious. Maybe I'm a mix of both opinionated and passionate! I could live with that.
No, I was just asking...I don't really know which is correct.

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I don't know you - you come across more analytical than emotional in the posts of yours I've read to date.
No question. I want to challenge and be challenged. To me this is life practice.
 
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So can you really blame them if alot of guys just go, "well, if you don't know whether you're even available, then how do you expect me to?"....
Yes... that's stupid, to be blunt. She's being coy and wants someone to read between her lines to prove he's on her wavelength and willing to make her feel wanted. Courtship isn't a business deal (and even so why not play coy in business too.)
 
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Why don't I have a partner? My joke to myself is that no man can tame me!
Why is it a joke to yourself?... didn't you say you intimidate guys? (And need a hero big enough that you can't intimidate him because THAT man is special and I'll always feel great that he wants me... and so on... just speculation, is that right?)

Perfectly reasonable position to me.
 
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Now I am back to square one, looking for my knight on a white horse.
(see...another one!... wanting to be swept away)
 
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