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Can Two People Learn to Love Each Other?

If you're committed to giving and getting emotional love does it really matter what the other person looks like?

Can two people make it work just because they both have the desire to make it work?
 
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let me say i've tried... NO not romantically
you can learn to love someone as a person and intellectually, you can learn to please them and vice versa, but you cannot change who you are and what turns you on, what its like when someone sparks true romantic interest and settling for someone who doesn't just leads to trouble when you find someone who does spark your romantic flame, it leads to cheating divorce affairs, feelings of duty entanglement, desire sorrow and entrapment, you're better off alone than settling, because no matter how your try to avoid it when you find a true match you will ALWAYS not maybe, not if you do a, b, or c, mark my words ALWAYS hurt your good friend the convenient lover, you can't hide true passion, and passion is what makes the world go round, its what we call true love, its what drove romeo and juliet to their romantic tragedy... it is as inescapable as the air we breathe, as human as hair, as common and ancient as water. to err is human, to accept what is, is instinct, honest, wise, savage
 
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cherrybombsnfireworks wrote :
let me say i've tried... NO not romantically
you can learn to love someone as a person and intellectually, you can learn to please them and vice versa, but you cannot change who you are and what turns you on, what its like when someone sparks true romantic interest and settling for someone who doesn't just leads to trouble when you find someone who does spark your romantic flame, it leads to cheating divorce affairs, feelings of duty entanglement, desire sorrow and entrapment, you're better off alone than settling, because no matter how your try to avoid it when you find a true match you will ALWAYS not maybe, not if you do a, b, or c, mark my words ALWAYS hurt your good friend the convenient lover, you can't hide true passion, and passion is what makes the world go round, its what we call true love, its what drove romeo and juliet to their romantic tragedy... it is as inescapable as the air we breathe, as human as hair, as common and ancient as water. to err is human, to accept what is, is instinct, honest, wise, savage
And I agree...you can't train yourself to be attracted to someone because feelings are involuntary. But love isn't "in love", right?

But I disagree that passion makes the world go round (and I don't mean literally)... I think you can love someone sincerely and don't need to be passionate about it.

I guess I'm saying one can like their job and not have to be passionate ... LOVE MY JOB!... and be satisfied with that.
 
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WeDesignOurLives wrote :
Can Two People Learn to Love Each Other?

If you're committed to giving and getting emotional love does it really matter what the other person looks like?

Can two people make it work just because they both have the desire to make it work?
No, it doesn't matter what the other person looks like. The key words here are committed and desire.

Yes, it can work.
 
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