devotion_n_care is offline devotion_n_care Post #1  November 8,2008, 4:10am
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It is very important in every couple to ensure that both Compatibility and Chemistry are 2,the most important factor for a hit couple.If either is lacking then it makes a relationship less lively and enjoyable,both physically and emotionally.


If two people,whenever together are all the time engrossed in discovering and discussinginteresting topics in their relationship,I feel they could be the most happy n content couple in their lifetime.


Agony,boredom,jealousy,dissatisfaction creeps in when either compatibility or Chemistry slows down in a relationship.


So,friends u wanna keep your happiness,firefilled relationship not to end,better pay attention to the two important C"s in your life.





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3dimension is offline 3dimension Post #2  November 14,2008, 3:09am
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looking at couple that have been together for 40, 50, 60 years it seems to that it's more the comfort and security they have being able to sit in silence together rather than constant, stimulating nattering.
 
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I'd add Communication to the other 2 C's.


And a certain level of outside interests and interactions allow each partner to bring more back to the relationship than if the two are constantly only interacting with one another.
 
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sorry folks! passion fades. interests change. do you want to know what i think it takes to keep a relationship going through the ups and downs of life? it is that missing "C." the one no one wants to talk about anymore. COMMITMENT
 
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notyet,364015 wrote :

sorry folks! passion fades. interests change. do you want to know what i think it takes to keep a relationship going through the ups and downs of life? it is that missing "C." the one no one wants to talk about anymore. COMMITMENT
Amen to that.
 
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Commitment, absolutely. But what does it take in order to have that commitment? How about the will? Or the power of the will? Perhaps you need a committed will or a willful commitment.


Isn't the world, after all, will and representation?
 
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i am not a philosopher but let me try it at 2:30 a.m. EST.


Commitment- the act of committing- to commit. to commit requires an act of the will (volition) which presupposes we have the ability to choose- to decide- to take responsibility for our actions. which means i either choose to commit or i choose to be uncommited.


all of this talk of "when you know you are in love" "what if i fall out of love" "do we click" "are we sexually compatible" is short sighted and shallow.


have you found someone you would like to spend the rest of your life with? do you have similar values and goals? could you commit to them? will they commit to you?


i just don't think it is that difficult- but i do believe we really are too selfish to understand that the sex will not always be mind-blowing and the conversation may not always be witty. chemistry in a relationship is made over years of getting used to each others quirks.
 
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To ME, its the 3-C's: Christ, Committment, Communication!
 
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JewelinHiscrown,366045 wrote :

To ME, its the 3-C's: Christ, Committment, Communication!
Here's some support for your 3-C's:



Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
 
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JewelinHiscrown,366045 wrote :

To ME, its the 3-C's: Christ, Committment, Communication!
You have it right, Christ is first, as it is in your thread.
 
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