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reachme is offline reachme Post #1  April 27,2009, 7:41pm
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After going threw the E-H steps than talking and meeting a man I was interrested in~ the chemistry is no where 2 b found. I leave agrivated at all the time, effort and money spent on building up to the meet only to see that it would never work.


How would it appear if I just fast tracked all my future interrest, right to a meet?


I have been on LOTS of other dating sites and this seems to b an ongoing issue 4 me. I read people for a living and being in front of a person as we talk is completly different than email or on the phone. Every one can say the right things, but ur body will always say whats real.


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After going threw the E-H steps than talking and meeting a man I was interrested in~ the chemistry is no where 2 b found. I leave agrivated at all the time, effort and money spent on building up to the meet only to see that it would never work.


How would it appear if I just fast tracked all my future interrest, right to a meet?


I have been on LOTS of other dating sites and this seems to b an ongoing issue 4 me. I read people for a living and being in front of a person as we talk is completly different than email or on the phone. Every one can say the right things, but ur body will always say whats real.


What r ur thoughts?
I agree if you are not into the questions provided and want to move things at a faster pace then I would change to fast track. Everyone is different and likes to go about the process different so you may have some people that would not be interested in moving that fast. I also agree that body language is one of the best ways to tell if a person is interested and if you are good at reading people then that would be your best choice. Some people have trouble with reading body language so it can be difficult and confusing. If you change to fast track and you feel you are not receiving the responses you would like you can always go and change things back to the way it was before.
 
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I agree, that if this is not moving at the pace you would prefer, (I feel the same way) go to Fast track. If the other person prefers not then they may not be the person for you anyway.
 
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