littlebluemonkeymind is offline littlebluemonkeymind Post #11  October 12,2009, 7:32am
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Buy her a copy of Jane Eyre.

He's involved with another woman, whether romantically or just domestically and legally. I wouldn't date him until he's not.
 
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Interesting situation, eh? Like I said, it's a friend of mine that met the dude, not me.

I think my take on things would be that there's still some lingering involvement, otherwise the ex- (they had a relationship, but did not marry) and he would have found a way to live apart. I'd probably not date him, but he's one of these fun kind of guys who is very charismatic apparently.

I've only encountered this once, but a slightly different version: the man I met had a divorce settlement (several years before) which included subdividing the lot that the former family home was on. He eventually built a 2nd house 'across the driveway' from his ex- wife's house. According to neighbors, there had been occasions that his ex- would drink to excess and pass out with all the doors and windows open. He went on to say that now that he's living across the driveway from her (she was a school nurse, no less) his young kids could just walk across to his house when mom was unconscious.

Um yeh.
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Alcoholic school nurses are sexy!
 
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ThePriestess wrote :
I remember a girl in one of my middle school classes reading a book called Flowers In the Attic ...
I just read the 'cliff notes' on that book and all I can say is ... eww.
 
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Alcoholic school nurses are sexy!

I wonder if there is a Halloween costume like this... Sexy white uniform, black fishnet stockings, and hey, I could hold a beer...
 
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Google sexy nurse costume. They're all over the place. Beer not included.
 
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I wonder if there is a Halloween costume like this... Sexy white uniform, black fishnet stockings, and hey, I could hold a beer...
 
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Google sexy nurse costume. They're all over the place. Beer not included.
Thanks, Monkey!

Add black heels and beer and ... let simmer ...
 
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I just read the 'cliff notes' on that book and all I can say is ... eww.
Never read it ... don't know anything about it ... but I remember the cover. Kinda spoooookeeee.
 
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jsbach wrote :
It would probably be best if she told him to give her a call when the ex moves out.
He's involved with another woman, whether romantically or just domestically and legally. I wouldn't date him until he's not.
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I can't believe that they're totally platonic.Anyway, my comment to you is that I only date a man who is free and clear. I would move on.
Would you date a man who still owned property with his ex-?
 
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