lacedwithhope is offline lacedwithhope Post #121  October 9,2009, 4:37pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Well, assuming you don’t believe in karma, the biggest concern I have is that it reflects very poorly on your intellectual skills (a good part of my definition of marriage potential.)

One issue I have is with people who have not validated their opinion – or defend it using only low-quality “data” which reinforces their opinion. In other words, can you demonstrate with quality data a connection between marriage success and having had sex on the first date?

Can you participate effectively in a conversation I will introduce to explore the definition of “marriage success” and the appropriateness of the instrumental variables which the studies you cited included?

Note that the above is not intended as a critique of people holding a specific value, but the specific idea of denouncing a man as not marriage material due to having had sex, after you enticed him for that purpose.
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That will suffice. You may step down.
LOL! Maybe this the right time to let D_Lion know that I would never sleep with a guy, first date or otherwise, who thought so poorly of me and my intellectual skills. And I certainly wouldn't want D_L to feel compelled to dumb himself down for me...hypothetically speaking, of course!
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ThePriestess is offline ThePriestess Post #122  October 9,2009, 7:26pm
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What do you think? Problems? Concerns?
Should I be worried that you didn't even sleep in the same room as me?
 
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Should I be worried that you didn't even sleep in the same room as me?
If the meet and greet was here I'd throw you all in the same cabin so the laughter wouldn't keep me awake!!
 
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lacedwithhope is offline lacedwithhope Post #124  October 9,2009, 8:24pm
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Should I be worried that you didn't even sleep in the same room as me?
We're discussing the black dress scenario. Since you advised me to wear the red dress on the magical night, I assumed you weren't interested in fast-tracking. So...that makes you suited for an LDR. Now you can be worried.
 
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We're discussing the black dress scenario. Since you advised me to wear the red dress on the magical night, I assumed you weren't interested in fast-tracking. So...that makes you suited for an LDR. Now you can be worried.
Little black dresses are nice too ...
 
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