lacedwithhope is offline lacedwithhope Post #1  September 11,2009, 4:35pm
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From a recent dating thread, the concept of foreplay and what people find enticing seems different to men and women. What should lead up to foreplay?

For men is it *yawn* "Wouldja look at the time!" and then they switch modes and jump right in?

Do the women need more "warming up" and need their man to communicate things on more of an emotional level, like: "honey you mean so much to me and look so beautiful tonight..."

I remember dating a guy who's idea of beforeplay and foreplay was suggesting I 'say hello to Mr. Happy.' Gawd.

Is what happens before the bedroom essential to the sustainability of the relationship? Have any of your ex's had peculiar ideas about this?
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hogrally is offline hogrally Post #2  September 11,2009, 5:49pm
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When he picks up my beer before I have finished it and walks into the bedroom with it. He KNEW it would take less than 2 minutes for me to follow the beer trail. By then he is nekkid and waiting.
 
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hogrally wrote :
When he picks up my beer before I have finished it and walks into the bedroom with it. He KNEW it would take less than 2 minutes for me to follow the beer trail. By then he is nekkid and waiting.
Smooooooooooth! LOL
 
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hogrally wrote :
When he picks up my beer before I have finished it and walks into the bedroom with it. He KNEW it would take less than 2 minutes for me to follow the beer trail. By then he is nekkid and waiting.
Wow, now that's what I call 'low maintenance!' I like it (if I was a guy, that is).
 
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C'mon Huzzies, what is your fantasy pre-foreplay? The Keepers are curious, you know...
 
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I'll have to admit that a bottle or four of wine and nekkid hot tub time are high on my list right now
Worst I ever dealt with was a guy who enjoyed getting a foot massage.... he'd sleep the whole time I was rubbing, wake up once I stopped, and figure I was in the mood.
 
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I'll have to admit that a bottle or four of wine and nekkid hot tub time are high on my list right now
Worst I ever dealt with was a guy who enjoyed getting a foot massage.... he'd sleep the whole time I was rubbing, wake up once I stopped, and figure I was in the mood.
That's hilarious. But, I concur with the hot tub idea -- especially when the stars are out and the visibility is low...
 
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WOW ! ! Sounds like some of you need to raise your standards a little bit. I like to cook a nice meal, bring in a fresh dozen of roses, run my fingers through her hair, gently caress her soft skin, ask her about her day, and.......
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Standards??? What are those!!
Actually did raise my standards as the new hubby is disgustingly romantic. Not used to that at all, but am coming to enjoy it a lot!

As for the nekkid hot tub moments.... yep, dark with the stars or thunderstorms going. As I'm back in Utah, hate to scare the neighborhood kids by frolicking about outside nekkid too much
 
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Laughingdaily wrote :
WOW ! ! Sounds like some of you need to raise your standards a little bit. I like to cook a nice meal, bring in a fresh dozen of roses, run my fingers through her hair, gently caress her soft skin, ask her about her day, and.......
Well, VegasChick and I were under the assumption that the meal, roses, hair massage, and the discussion of our day occurred before the hot tub escapades...
 
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