Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #1  August 3,2009, 5:42am
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there was a Viking Lady (VL) who wrote a handsome Texan (HT) on a dating website, complimenting him on his photos. The HT wrote back and explainded he was looking for company when in the UK on business trips. The VL wasn't looking for a relationship so a bit of fun would be absolutely fine. The e-mails flew back and forth for weeks and they agreed on meeting on his next trip. When they met at the airport and she for the first time laid her eyes upon him it was like a bolt of lightening went through her. They spent a wonderful 24 hrs together, the correspondance grew and they met up whenever he was in Europe where she would fly out and meet him. 7 months went by and the VL realised she had lost her heart to the HT and as they both from the beginning had explained they weren't looking for commitment she thought it better to end it as not to get hurt. She wrote him and e-mail thanking him for a wonderful time and wished him all the best. To her surprise she received a reply where he declared her his love and she couldn't be happier. The relationship continued for another 2 years, he would come and stay at her place, she would fly out and stay at his place and they would go on vacations together. They had now started talking about her coming to live with him. Then a black cloud was looming on the horizon, a very possesive and controlling ex turned up more and more often putting pressure on the HT, talking about trying again for the sake of the family. Suddenly the HT didn't know what to do. "We do have a long history together and 2 (grown-up) sons to consider as well but I'm in love with you and want to live with you, I don't know what to do", he said. "If my ex moves back it won't last for more than 6 months before we hate each other." The VL pondered about this and with a bleeding heart she said, "If you want to try and patch it up with your ex I wish you all the best and hope you will succeed." "I am conflicted he said, it would be the right thing to do family wise but it is not what I want, I want to live with you." The HT and VL went on a wonderful vacation to France and all seemed to be going in the right direction. The HT went back to his place and the VL was as happy as she could be about the future.
Last night the VL received a phone call from the HT, "My ex is moving back in and we'll give it another try, it's not necessarely what I want but there's the history." The VL is devastated and numb and in a flood of tears, her heart has been ripped out and she feels her whole world has come crashing down on her.

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dac830 is offline dac830 Post #2  August 3,2009, 5:51am
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sez ... its hard to be pithy when there is no one to pith with...

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I cry with VL...

And offer unlimited hugs...
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #3  August 3,2009, 5:59am
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The Viking Lady had a multitude of friends to lend support and they all sent hugs and kisses. They know it's not much but it's all they can offer because they're all long distance friends but she knows they're sincere and will always be there when she needs them.

Hugs to the Viking Lady.
 
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Oh Mokkesofie, I do not have words comforting enough or arms long enough to reach you all the way across the seas. I have guns enough and gas enough to go rough up said errant Texan and would be pleased to form a brigade of hussies of terrible wrath. I suppose that won't do either.

In the end I can only say I am sorry and that I care. You are such a bright, golden, happy flower in this huge CSC garden (the keepers providing the manure and weeds).

We hurt with you and will be here for you however we can.
 
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Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Someone is making a tragic mistake.
 
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Thanks for the support. I'm definitely not in a good place right now.
 
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coffeegeek is offline coffeegeek Post #7  August 3,2009, 6:19am
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So, who's knee caps am I breaking?
 
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RebornInFire is offline RebornInFire Post #8  August 3,2009, 6:23am
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I happen to live in Texas...I'll take over CG. So you want the HT or the Ex taken care of?

Mucho hugs.
 
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The Viking Lady followed her heart and there is no shame nor tears in doing that. The Viking Lady and the Handsome Texan enjoyed each others company a great deal-and the good feelings from those moments should be treasured and brought back repeatedly for a "boost".

Handsome Texan made a choice and regardless of what the outcome may be, he made it after great thought and soul-searching. It was not an easy decision on his part to make. Viking Lady is sad and will be sad for a time. But Viking Lady should never think that she "lost". Handsome Texan did what he thought was the appropriate decision. None of that can erase the connection, nor the joy that he and Viking Lady feel for each other.

Life does not always turn out the way that we would want it to turn out. But life turns for a reason. This was meant to be-sadly-but it was meant to be.

Having said that, this Narrator wishes to let Viking Lady know that she is in his heart and thoughts. This Narrator has also suffered pain such as this in his past and knows how much it hurts. Words hardly suffice, but they do provide some salve.

{{{{{{{{{{Viking Lady}}}}}}}}}}}

Let the pain pass through as it will. Do not hold onto it. When it is time to feel better-you will. Until then, you have many, many people at CSC who are more than willing to hold you up if you need support. Myself included.
 
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coffeegeek wrote :
So, who's knee caps am I breaking?
Thanks for the offer but he's a Federal Marshall and works for the FBI so maybe not such a good idea
 
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