shellyg is offline shellyg Post #1  January 21,2009, 4:41am
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Has anyone encountered this problem? Many of my matches do not have photos available to view and when I request one I don't get many responses. I even send the first set of questions to let them know I am interested in seeing what they look like. I realize that physical attraction is not the most important thing but I myself must be physically attracted to a man. This frustrates me beyond belief! I mean if I don't find you attractive physically then I am sure someone else will. You have to be fearless and ready for anything in the world of dating.
 
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Has anyone encountered this problem? Many of my matches do not have photos available to view and when I request one I don't get many responses. I even send the first set of questions to let them know I am interested in seeing what they look like. I realize that physical attraction is not the most important thing but I myself must be physically attracted to a man. This frustrates me beyond belief! I mean if I don't find you attractive physically then I am sure someone else will. You have to be fearless and ready for anything in the world of dating.


I feel exactly the same way Shelly.... Not everyone is going to like the look of you or feel a physical attraction. I too have to be attracted to someone in orderto be with them...


I've had this happend too. I used to request a photo and then even nudge. I also tried sending first questions, but received the same kind of response. To me, it's kind of a game.... one that I don't play... I just close now. I may be limiting myself, but I know what I want. I'm not shallow at all, but I too must feel attraction.


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livinagin,442924 wrote :

Not in this forum, please?
My apologies. I am new to this and just posted to the first group on my list.
 
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It is OK, shellyg! We want you here -- just gotta check all those questions on the main boards -- we try to keep a gar-bage free environment so that people can pursue their inner child here. Welcome!
 
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livinagin,442932 wrote :


It is OK, shellyg! We want you here -- just gotta check all those questions on the main boards -- we try to keep a gar-bage free environment so that people can pursue their inner child here. Welcome!


Sorry.. I have to borrow a line here, but "My inner child needs a spankin"
 
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livinagin,442932 wrote :


It is OK, shellyg! We want you here -- just gotta check all those questions on the main boards -- we try to keep a gar-bage free environment so that people can pursue their inner child here. Welcome!


Sorry.. I have to borrow a line here, but "My inner child needs a spankin"


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livinagin,442932 wrote :


It is OK, shellyg! We want you here -- just gotta check all those questions on the main boards -- we try to keep a gar-bage free environment so that people can pursue their inner child here. Welcome!


Sorry.. I have to borrow a line here, but "My inner child needs a spankin"


Really now, Tyym, you're wearin' us all out! And I just saw TP post last night that we(huzzies) were insatiable! We're gonna have to start chargin' for feather dusters!
 
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shellyg,442928 wrote :

livinagin,442924 wrote :


Not in this forum, please?


My apologies. I am new to this and just posted to the first group on my list.
What she's saying is, this is where we come to be stoopid. Please leave your brain at the door. We like our new friends to be as completely brainless as possible, lol.
 
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She already figured it out. She's on the main boards and has a great attitude to boot. Welcome shellg!
 
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