She was my first love, my first kiss, but now she wants to marry my brother.


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Kbzirah is offline Kbzirah Post #1  April 13,2009, 3:46am
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She was my first love, my first kiss, but now she wants to marry my brother. She's all i've ever dreamt of being with my entire life. Just cant take it coz one mind cant solve the puzzle.
 
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Say what?! I need details!
 
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Kbzirah, that was low down. Did you have any clue or were you blind sided with it?
 
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Thats sounds crazy if she left you for your brother It may not seem like it now but she was never the one for you .You need to let go before the right one do come around and you miss out
 
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This might sound off-base, but w/o us knowing the details, we can't really stand in judgment of that lady.


I mean, the 1st kiss & first love could have been when they both were 5 years old in preschoolfor all we know. Maybe she didn't even know his feelings for her. Maybe he was a Cyrano deBergerac (or however it's spelled), loving her from afar as another capitalized on his romantic overtures.


We can all live in silent frustration and pain w/o the object of our affection even knowing about it. It happened to a guy who liked me since 1st grade. We dated as 15-year-olds, but he was too doting for me so I cut it off.


Do you know that when we graduated from highschool, he was still harboring pain from that "puppy love" rejection since our dating episode in 9th grade? And since he liked me from the 1st grade? I had no idea. I was going on with my life, and his cousin liked me by that time. In fact, I had dated his cousin in the 11th grade.


But his cousin's twin brother liked me, too,in the 12th grade. But I wouldn't date the other twin. I felt that would have been too low -- but that's because (a) I knew how the other twin felt about me, and (b) they were twins for crying out loud!
 
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Kbzirah, wrote :

She was my first love, my first kiss, but now she wants to marry my brother. She's all i've ever dreamt of being with my entire life. Just cant take it coz one mind cant solve the puzzle.
honey you need to say good riddance of bad rubbish, and what type of man your brother is that he would want to marry your used trash,honey i think you get away from years of heartache.i was there once but it was not a family member it was my bestfriend i spend 10 years of my life just hating both of them but in the the end i washating myself for letting it happen to me i saw the signs i did nothing about it every one keeps telling me what was happening and yet still i did not believe it, because this was someone you will do anything for and give everything you got. my heart was stone cold that not even heat could have melt it,and what make that ice melt was i remember that i was a praying person, even though i was praying every day istill could not feel anything so one day i sat in my livingroom talking to god and this songpop up on the radio, (when you have troubles dont cry just remember god is standing by)and honey i cried and i cried and is like a weight have been lifted of my heart , i said to myself judy how could be hating someone when you believe in god, i guess what i am trying to say is trust in god,he will be what ever you want him to be for you .talk to him and you will find the answer to easing yourheartache,because honey you will bein for years of misery and another thing is they were going on with their happy lives while i was sitting at home feeling like crap, so honey donot letthem take your live away from you,because that is exactly what will happen.
 
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