Wishing to fall in love, but don't have the courage to approach a lady!


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Kelcy is offline Kelcy Post #1  April 11,2009, 2:53am
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It's kind of crazy when u're lonely, you think of all sorts of words u'd say to a lady of ya dream and when u go out there and see 'em u got speechless....even a hi won't have a place on ya lips anymore.
Just be bold and take away the fear of rejection, cuz that's the force pulling u back.
 
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Kelcy, I wouldencourage you totake it one step at a time. I wouldn't start off with theconcept offinding the person of my dreams. Perhaps it's because I've looked so long just to find a friend -- the person of my dreams is another dimension at this stage.


But for your own life, think of the recounts of Marilyn Monroe's love life.No one wanted to be rejected by her,but she actually was wishing someone would ask her out.Everyone figured she "must" already have someone as gorgeous as she was.But she didn't.


(Was it Marilyn Monroe or that other blonde bombshell...? I think that's the story, at any rate. Someoneplease correct me,if that's not right.)
 
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Good point !
 
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Good point !
 
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angelvoice88 is offline angelvoice88 Post #5  April 29,2009, 7:45am
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Who the "h" knows anything about Marilyn Monroe? You couldn't think of anyone else? Anyway, just be yourself and in order to be that--you got to know who you are and what you are about. Examine yourself deeply first to know what you want, believe in yourself and then just go for it. The world ain't gone stop cause you say "hi" to an attractive lady. You are much too focused on self. Get past yourself--ain't nobody documentating your every move or even paying attention much at all, if any. Be the best that you can be and if some lady doesn't reply back, then SHE has a problem not you.You can't fall in love if you can't even talk and get to know someone. Everyone has worth (even you)just because of being a child of God--which we all are. Gotta have faith in yourself and in a Higher Being. Then just go for it. No one bats a thousand every time but you got to keep striving and doing your best (That is all God asks and that is all we should ask of ourselves--to do our best everyday). Called life, Kelcy and you gotta live it or get left behind. Peace and blessings
 
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