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A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?
 
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Why is he a virgin? Religious reason? Doesn't like girls that much?Painfully shy? Just because he's a virgin doesn't mean he can't learn. We non-virgins were all virgins once, we learned. I'vebeen withnon-virgin guys (before abstinence) who might as well have been virgins as unskillful as they were. I think we have to start valuing people for more than these type of things. In our hyper-sexual society, he's showed real character. This is the type of thing that demoralizes nice guys.If I found a virgin my age (HA!)who wanted to marry me,I wouldn't care one bit.
 
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angeniece, wrote :

A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?
Soooo... instead of being with a man that she can teach exactly what SHE likes, she wants to be with a man that's been with other women and can not only compare her to them, if he's a dog he can also give her their infection? Smart girl!
 
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angeniece, wrote :

A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?
Honestly? It takes a lot of training to be a good partner for someone, and I'm not talking aboutjust in bed.


Maybe she just wasn't up to the job as trainer.
 
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ice_in_ur_shorts,363388 wrote :

angeniece, wrote :


A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?


Honestly? It takes a lot of training to be a good partner for someone, and I'm not talking aboutjust in bed.


Maybe she just wasn't up to the job as trainer.
Oh snap!
 
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JasonX43,366504 wrote :

ice_in_ur_shorts,363388 wrote :


angeniece, wrote :


A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?


Honestly? It takes a lot of training to be a good partner for someone, and I'm not talking aboutjust in bed.


Maybe she just wasn't up to the job as trainer.


Oh snap!
i am seeing someone who says he not a virgin but couldnt find my special spot. i'm definately not up to being a trainer.
 
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Soulful_Steph,368068 wrote :

JasonX43,366504 wrote :


ice_in_ur_shorts,363388 wrote :


angeniece, wrote :


A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?


Honestly? It takes a lot of training to be a good partner for someone, and I'm not talking aboutjust in bed.


Maybe she just wasn't up to the job as trainer.


Oh snap!


i am seeing someone who says he not a virgin but couldnt find my special spot. i'm definately not up to being a trainer.
Snap back!!!
 
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I think dumping someone cause they are a virgin is wrong on all parts.I see why I just gave up dating for good this year on my birthday.
 
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I WISH that Icould find a virgin. They are in slim supply. SInce becoming absitnent, it seams that the are no abstinent/virgin men within this hemisphere. Could she please send him my way?!
 
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angeniece wrote :
A friend of mine recently stopped dating a nice man because he was a virgin. She said she doesn't want to date/marry anyone less experienced then she. What do you think?
I think she suffers from what unfortunately a lot of black women suffer from (from my personal experience)...being shallow.

Just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they won't or will be a good sexual partner for you. No matter who you decide to share your bed with, you're going to have to "train" them to do the things you like and vise versa.
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