This is a question of ADULT CONTENT that only a man can answer...


Reply
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Ahava1979 is offline Ahava1979 Post #1  May 12,2010, 11:45pm
Ahava1979's Avatar

is at home.

Newbie

Joined: Dec 2009

Posts: 41

See profile

For the first time in a few years I am dating a guy who I really feel comfortable and secure with.

[COLOR=black][FONT=Garamond]What would you think if a young lady you were dating sent you an email asking you to help her have a G-spot orgasm?
Last edited by Ahava1979; May 12,2010 at 11:59pm.
 
  Reply With Quote
tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #2  May 13,2010, 3:12am
tweet37's Avatar

has all the tools and can........satisfy

Power Poster

Joined: Sep 2008

New Jersey

Posts: 7,608

See profile

Ahava1979 wrote :
What would you think if a young lady you were dating sent you an email asking you to help her have a G-spot orgasm?
GIDDYUP!
 
  Reply With Quote
BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #3  May 13,2010, 3:42am
BikerBeagle's Avatar

thinks everyone should just ask themselves, WWBBD?

Virtuoso

Joined: Aug 2008

Kansas

Posts: 2,548

See profile

wrote :
I don’t want the question to be a turn off or an insult to him as though he’s not satisfying me
The question itself shouldn't offend him ...in fact, I'd hasten to say that he'll already have you mostly undressed by the time you finish the question ;-) ...especially if you come at is like "I've never/rarely been able to do this with anyone else and want to try it with you". Guys love "firsts" or anything that will set them apart from every other guy you've dated.

As for the email? ...meh, ask him in person ...and maybe 'asking' isn't the right word. Tell him a fantasy story with very detailed descriptions of what you are wanting him to do - it is possible he may not know how to do what you are asking of him, then end it with "will you make my fantasy come true?".

It's all about the delivery ...
 
  Reply With Quote
Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #4  May 13,2010, 5:32am

blames self-help books

Power Poster

Joined: Oct 2009

STL

Posts: 4,879

See profile

Alright, clearly I am a woman. I agree with the in person, the only thing immature about the question would be emailing it. I am answering this because I am not sure you are aware that you have more to do with those types of orgasms than he does. In other words he can't help you. There is no road map to where your g-spot is or more to the point the best way to stimulate it.

You may want to check out LTAS. There is a thread there that I know would be helpful to your quest. You may have to hunt a bit to find it though.
 
  Reply With Quote
Dafearon is offline Dafearon Post #5  May 13,2010, 7:05am
Dafearon's Avatar

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2008

Maryland

Posts: 2,181

See profile

Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
There is no road map to where your g-spot is or more to the point the best way to stimulate it.
Dang, just think of the successes men would have if there were.
 
  Reply With Quote
Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #6  May 13,2010, 7:09am

blames self-help books

Power Poster

Joined: Oct 2009

STL

Posts: 4,879

See profile

Dafearon wrote :
Dang, just think of the successes men would have if there were.
Just find a woman who has already mapped it and have her show you the way.
 
  Reply With Quote
scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #7  May 13,2010, 7:40am

no stuntman surprises or houdini like disguises for death defying escape

Unregistered

Joined: Apr 2009

Where the clouds are like headlines on a new front page sky

Posts: 10,721

See profile

IME, it's always better to bring up special requests whilst making out.
 
  Reply With Quote
DrTonto is offline DrTonto Post #8  May 13,2010, 7:45am

Newbie

Joined: May 2010

Posts: 49

See profile

I believe that the post above mine answered your question.
I would not put it in an e mail because you don't want him to think that he is doing something incorrectly. If you can't find it and make it go "Bingo" it may be just as difficult for him as well.

Maybe invite him to join you at a sex shop say after dinner and ask the clerk what toys are designed for the G-Spot?
You may find it relaxing and exciting? Have fun.
 
  Reply With Quote
Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #9  May 13,2010, 8:05am
Mokkesofie's Avatar

Power Poster

Joined: Nov 2008

Posts: 8,463

See profile

Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
Just find a woman who has already mapped it and have her show you the way.
I posted it in LTAS a while back. Got some very happy responses from women that tried it with success. I'll see if I can find my post.
 
  Reply With Quote
Dafearon is offline Dafearon Post #10  May 13,2010, 8:15am
Dafearon's Avatar

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2008

Maryland

Posts: 2,181

See profile

Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
Just find a woman who has already mapped it and have her show you the way.
That just leads me back to square one of "finding a woman".

I will go online and search for this map...............................oh eeew..lets not to that search ever again, at least not at work
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply


« No Pain, No... | let's talk about sex | Orgasms! Who needs them?? »
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
eHarmony Profile Workshop: Question 3: "Who has been most influential person in your life, & why?' eHA_Admin_Lori Using eHarmony 97 April 20,2011 6:07pm
Question - I could not under any condition remain married to my spouse if he/she were ever unfaithful to me. Mr_Right Relationships 188 May 21,2010 2:43pm
So I got the "If they made a movie of your life ...." question. Rhizzlebop Using eHarmony 19 April 4,2010 5:04pm
Photo -> Nudge -> Close >- Reopen Question Technical Question. ScottK Using eHarmony 13 November 12,2009 3:07pm
Why is understanding history important to understanding politics? outlaw1 Politics 16 June 20,2009 4:55am

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“ Excellent, thank you. I think I will leave out the first part, I think it is unnecessary information to give him. I'm not interested in putting myself out there like that and it might be a little ... ” –  generallyyou

Join the “Ending a friendship” discussion

“Alfred Hitchcock - 18 Steven Spielberg - 62 *notice what?” –  dmi

Join the “War of the Directors” discussion

“ I would be "certain people" :P The issue isn't a deal-breaker, but a very strong factor preference-wise, for me.” –  ThePriestess

Join the “How much does race play in your dating someone?” discussion

“Love Texas Hold'em!.. I'm thinking of trying another tournament this summer...not sure yet though.. Never entered a tournament before, outside of online ones. Personally I prefer to play with ... ” –  Freezepop

Join the “Favorite Card Game” discussion

“Make that 3! I also had a crush on Donny Osmond. I think I still have a record or two of his. Suzie ” –  legend29

Join the “Robin Gibbs Dead at 62...How Deep is Your Love?” discussion

“Oh, my revised profile can be seen in the forum in the section where you can ask for a profile review. Suzanne” –  SuzanneScorpio

Join the “Photo Review” discussion

“Just remember, everything that you are feeling and/or are capable of he is as well. If he wanted to reach you, he could. Right now he knows that you are hurting, and that this is not what you ... ” –  lynntlb78

Join the “Can I wait and move on at the same time?” discussion

“ Yohio. And the shortened form (Anya) is nice too.” –  ThePriestess

Join the “Where is Becky?!?” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 7:48am.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0