pds857 is offline pds857 Post #1  December 15,2009, 2:03pm
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Hi ya'll! I miss ya! I promise!
An to prove it I have a question!

What if I'm in this relationship with this awesome,
sexy man, thats jus the most awesome gentelman
ya ever did find, an he's like the extreme gent' ok?

Opens doors, insists on payin both our ways, always
shows that he's thinkin bout me even when we aint
in each other's company. I mean he hasnt even tried to
cop a feel or nothin.
Which also means that he hasnt tried to advance into
any type of sexual relationship.
The best I get are kisses. Which are great, promise.

But as I'm a red blooded american female I want certain things.
An with him, I really want them, since he's also a tease in
his own way. He'll comment on this that or the other, an get me
thinkin bout whatever it is an then swat my tail or
brush up against me an yea it dont take much to tease me.

The problem is, I want the whole kit n kaboodle.
I want the teases, kisses, an sex.
Ya know how hard it is to want a man this much,
an spend the night in the same bed as him an know that I
aint gonna be gettin any? To cuddle up next to him
and be held close an kissed an then nothin ever
comes from it????

He assures me that he does want me. But that he's enjoying
this part of it right now. Well I'm enjoyin it too, but I'd enjoy
the other a lot better. LOL

Opinions? Advice? Anything?
Besides the whole 'take the bull by the horn'
Anything else? LOL
 
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Diann1950 is online now Diann1950 Post #2  December 15,2009, 2:05pm
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Question, is he capable? Can you tell?
 
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Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #3  December 15,2009, 2:10pm
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And here I was thinking you hadn't been posting because you were "busy".

How he can lie next to a hot chick like you with nothing happening is beyond me Maybe he has a problem that he's to shy to mention?
 
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What book is he reading? Something from Christian Carter?
 
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RoxyRedhead is offline RoxyRedhead Post #5  December 15,2009, 2:13pm

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ditto-I don't get the cuddling thing with no sex? After good sex-I'm all about that but instead of?
Not in this lifetime.

Initiate initiate initiate

OOPS you did say besides this didn't you
sorry.

How soon is too soon? Is he just into tantric delayed gratification?

And as mentioned, is he aroused?
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #6  December 15,2009, 2:15pm

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RoxyRedhead wrote :
ditto-I don't get the cuddling thing with no sex? After good sex-I'm all about that but instead of?
Not in this lifetime.

Initiate initiate initiate

OOPS you did say besides this didn't you
sorry.

How soon is too soon? Is he just into tantric delayed gratification?

And as mentioned, is he aroused?
Whoaa hold up there redhead mama....sometimes men like only cuddling too!!!
 
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RoxyRedhead is offline RoxyRedhead Post #7  December 15,2009, 2:24pm

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PY_2 wrote :
Whoaa hold up there redhead mama....sometimes men like only cuddling too!!!
Huh??
 
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He's playing hard to get. My advice is to just tell him you are getting frustrated at his holding out and you are ready to be intimate. LIKE RIGHT NOW.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #9  December 15,2009, 2:41pm

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RoxyRedhead wrote :
Huh??
You said
I don't get the cuddling thing with no sex? After good sex-I'm all about that but instead of?

So I my response
Men don't always gotta have sex all the time...sometimes we're ok with cuddling only too.
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RoxyRedhead is offline RoxyRedhead Post #10  December 15,2009, 3:14pm

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PY_2 wrote :
Men don't always want sex all the time...sometimes we're ok with cuddling only too.
I am so sorry PI--you really are a sensitive new age kinda guy aren't you (revising that list of women to include sensitive new age ones also.)

I meant that I like to cuddle after sex but don't consider it a replacement for sex.

However I was referring to my today state of mind. In the past-when I was married-there were plenty of nights we would cuddle and talk instead of have sex --but that was an established and enduring long term relationship, the likes of which I doubt I'll ever see again (@ almost 67 I don't for see a 20+ year relationship with anyone but a cat).

In my experience, a couple who are really attracted (read any phrase you like here-committed, exclusive, whatever) to each other act on that sexual impulse with...sex.

Cuddling instead of sex isn't something I've had in a new relationship....and I didn't realize it was part of some mens makeup.

I learn so much here!
 
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