scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #1  November 9,2009, 6:22am

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I have a question for the women.

I have been having sex with a guy for about 2 months. The sex is amazing but I seem to have issues later. It hurts to pee for a few days after and I am raw. We have sex once or twice a week . We always have multiple long sessions and it is very active. I am not dry (ever). It never hurts while we are doing it. I did get tested for STD's (as did he). I did go to the Dr about it once and she said I had a yeast infection. She prescribed the oral remedy and it still took days to feel better. My issue is better if I go pee right after we are done but it is not fixed. We have done it when I was still sore and it does not bother me while we are having sex . It is not horribly painful-I have been dealing with it for two months and it is worth the pain but I guess I was wondering if anyone had any ideas to make it stop. I thought at first it was because I had not been having sex and my body would get used to it. I probably should make another visit the the Gyn but I would rather not.
 
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It could be that your body reacts to his sperm or that he is sleeping with someone else as well and has transferred the infection to you (I'm not saying he is).
There's something called BV (Bacterial Vaginosis) which can lead to pelvic inflammatory diseases if not treated. It is closely associated with changes in the vaginal flora - specifically, in the balance of "good" bacteria and "bad" bacteria. It's not a STD and a man can transfer it from one woman to another. A woman can have that bacteria without any symptoms and transfer it via a man to another woman who might get the symptoms you describe.
 
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what Sofie said, and:

I would see a Dr. first.

secondly, try using condoms for a while to see if the condition continues. maybe he doesn't wash his peen.

even though you said you are not dry maybe a little lube might make a difference- make sure you get one that doesn't contain glycerin.
 
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scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #4  November 9,2009, 7:19am

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i wonder if a guy ate a lot of peanuts and then boinks a girl with a peanut allergy what would happen.

 
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HPV mirrors the symptoms of a yeast infection. You really should go see your doctor. If it is just yeast infections, yogurt. Not kidding.
 
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Follow up from Anonymous:

I appreciate all the feedback.
I have had a pap since we have been having sex so I do not think it is HPV (unless it takes time to show up).
I am pretty sure he is not sleeping with someone else. We are exclusive and I trust him but I guess you never know for sure. He is a very clean, neat person so I do not think that is the problem.
I have thought that I may be sensitive to his sperm-so I guess condoms would help with that-though I am not a big fan of them. I will try the yogurt as the symptoms are much like a yeast infection.
I need to figure out if I can go see my gyn (through insurance) for this as I would hate to go to my gp on this issue.
Thanks ladies for all your thoughts!.
 
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One other thing could be your birth control, depending on what you are using. Spermicides can give both/either of you a chemical burn in the nether regions which usually shows up when you pee.

Depending on your insurance, your GP may have to refer you to a gyno, though that has changed with most insurance companies in recent years.
 
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scarlet13 wrote :
We always have multiple long sessions and it is very active.
For some women, extended sessions can lead exactly to the problem you're having. This is particularly the case if you haven't had sex in a while, or if the sex is infrequent.

The two things to do are
1) (and you already discovered this) pee immediately after.
2) Drink lots of water before and after (and during, if possible). I can't remember exactly what causes it, but peeing flushes out the build-up of whatever it is that triggers the pain.
 
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