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The guy I recently broke up with was a bit immature. I was thinking about sex last night (sigh) and realized his technique was sort of immature, or maybe hurried is a better definition. By that I mean he pretty much wanted to get down to it, which is usually fine with me but sometimes, there should be a little 4 play.

So...thinking back, other immature guys were sort of the same. The more emotionally mature, quieter, confident ones spent more time on the...details.

Do you think there is a correlation or am I overanalyzing again?
 
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Nope, I find the same thing, mostly, being the case
 
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OverAnalyzer wrote :
So...thinking back, other immature guys were sort of the same. The more emotionally mature, quieter, confident ones spent more time on the...details.
Do you think there is a correlation or am I overanalyzing again?
Yes....I believe there is a corelation, both in men & women. If you want something that can't be over-analyzed....study why women rather consistently will tolerate and repeat scenerios they don't really like.
 
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OverAnalyzer wrote :
The guy I recently broke up with was a bit immature. I was thinking about sex last night (sigh) and realized his technique was sort of immature, or maybe hurried is a better definition. By that I mean he pretty much wanted to get down to it, which is usually fine with me but sometimes, there should be a little 4 play.

So...thinking back, other immature guys were sort of the same. The more emotionally mature, quieter, confident ones spent more time on the...details.

Do you think there is a correlation or am I overanalyzing again?
I feel like the immature just seem to focus on the mechanics. Form over substance(how accounting ruined my life), still a good way to describe it. Sorta like making sure you dot all the Is and cross all the Ts and forgetting to write the story.
 
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I'm a mature person...but sometimes junior isn't.
 
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i had to really think about this.

*ouch*

IME, yes. that's why i love the StarWars geeks.
 
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