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How do you feel about threesomes and group sex?

Have you had one/many? What did you like/dislike? what kind were they? (MMW, WWM, MMWW etc)

If you never have, or prefer not to say, what you you *think* is exciting about them? would you and what kind?

Immoral/moral?

Discuss Please.

 
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scarlet13 wrote :
Anonymous Poster asks:

How do you feel about threesomes and group sex?

Have you had one/many? What did you like/dislike? what kind were they? (MMW, WWM, MMWW etc)

If you never have, or prefer not to say, what you you *think* is exciting about them? would you and what kind?

Immoral/moral?

Discuss Please.

Never have tried one. Have dated somebody who had been in one (no we didn't try it together).

That is all
 
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Never have tried one. Have dated somebody who had been in one (no we didn't try it together).

That is all
so to the other questions- would you? do you think it's wrong or might damage the relationship?
 
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so to the other questions- would you? do you think it's wrong or might damage the relationship?
I won't judge those who are in those types of situations, but if I were to be in a relationship, my preference would be one-on-one. Fair is fair I wouldn't gang up on her just as much as I wouldn't expect her (and her lovely friends) to gang up on me!

I'm old fashioned that way
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MMW.
My first one was when I was single and 54 years old. I went out with this guy I had been only friends with and his friend, from back when they were children, was there for a visit. We had been out and I was going back to the flat with them before driving home. I walked into the living room and they both got up, dangling a pair of handcuffs (my friend worked in the police) and they both said, "this night is about you and only you." I kind of froze for a second but then thought "I'll probably never get an offer like that again" and just smiled at them. It was the greatest night ever, I thought I had died and gone to Heaven and I never regretted it.


MMW.
2 years later I told my then BF this story and he said he would like to try that and that he would take care of everything. He found this doctor and arranged to meet him and talk with him before agreeing on anything. Being approved, we all met up and had a fabulous lunch before driving to this nice hotel he had booked. It was an amazing afternoon, couldn't have been better.

MWW.
Traveling to an European Capital with my then BF I told him I would return the favour. I took him to a very upper class brothel and said he could look for what he liked and that the evening was on me. He looked like the cat that got the cream and we had a great time.


Would I have done it if we had had a serious, committed relationship or were married? I can't answer that. You have to trust your partner completely to do it.
Do I find it immoral? Not at all.
 
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I dont find it immoral. Its jus not my cup-o-tea.

I guess I'm a lil old fashioned since I'm only willing
to be with one man, in a commited relationship.
No other women, no other men.
I dont like 'flings' I tried that once an it was horrible for me.
On an emotional level. Not physical.

I think its neat if its your thing, but I cant say that
I really understand it. Somethin so .. intimate shared with
others, at the same time...
 
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If the relationship is strong, I don't think there should be an effect on it. of course, it takes trust and bounderies, but that should already be in place in a relationship, and any type of these activites should be done in the proper context. ( with all the safety precautions as well)

I said to an ex boyfriend once that if he wants another woman in our bed I'd best be in the bed too. or else.

I had a MMW a few years ago when i was away for the weekend. its wasn't something that was planned but very enjoyable, and it was nice being the center of attention. this is something that i would be interested in again, but i'm sure it would happen outside of a relationship- I can't imagine too many boyfriends being comfortable with it.

I've also had WWM threesomes - once with an ex BF and a few times with a female friend and random guy we knew. i prefer the latter as i felt more comfortable since there was no messy trust issues to deal with. also once with a married couple. i was the guest star, LOL.

it's not a requirement in a relationship that my man be open to these things, but variety IS the spice of life.


also: it's easier being the guest star than the one in the relationship. for sure.
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I agree with you on that, the relationship has to be strong. Plus, sexually you have to be on the same wavelength which my ex-BF and I definitely were.
 
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gee i wonder who gave you that five stars LOL!
 
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gee i wonder who gave you that five stars LOL!
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