pds857 is offline pds857 Post #101  October 29,2009, 10:50am
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I know what you mean. It's normal and just enjoy it.
Ok I was curious if it was. I didnt really remember it until we started talkin bout all this. (sad huh?) An then I figured someone would know. lol
I hope I get to enjoy all this IRL again soon! lol
 
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Okay guys, question. Do you all feel them? I am trying to figure out if I had found the one poor guy on earth who had all fakers up until me or are some stronger than others.... He was like oh that felt so good what did you do? Orgasm? no, yes, no, yes.....
To be honest, I would guesstimate that around 95% of my partners' climaxes have been when I have been oral . 3% by other (fingers) stimulation. Around 2% during actual intercourse (usually have intercourse after her climax).
In all cases, "do I feel them?" ABSOLUTELY. As I have stated in other threads, because it makes intercourse sooooo much better after she climaxes, the answer to "Who needs them??" is "she does" (first)
Once you make love with a woman who has just climaxed, you will never want it any other way (so sad that so few guys know this).
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Mokkesofie wrote :
The P-spot, which you can't stimulate directly as it is placed high up in the urethra, is the point that make some women squirt when having an orgasm.
 
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olneyjeeps wrote :
To be honest, I would guesstimate that around 95% of my partners' climaxes have been when I have been oral . 3% by other (fingers) stimulation. Around 2% during actual intercourse (usually have intercourse after her climax).
In all cases, "do I feel them?" ABSOLUTELY. As I have stated in other threads, because it makes intercourse sooooo much better after she climaxex, the answer to "Who needs them??" is "she does" (first)
Once you make love with a woman who has just climaxed, you will never want it any other way (so sad that so few guys know this).
Speak for yourself, I think more men know about that then "you" think. Also, will I ever want it any other way, ABSOLUTELY!!! I for one do not always go for the climax, foreplay is just as important, if not more so, then going for the climax. Sometimes it is just enough for her to have one or me to have one and we both are just as exhausted afterward. You can also have many sessions of foreplay without climax and be just as satisfied and exhausted, although you do have mini climaxes throughout your sessions. There are so many ways to enjoy each other, climax is just one. Change it up and learn new ways to enjoy each other is always good. Now, this is just my experience and opinion. Did I say, I love foreplay as much as I enjoy going for the climax.
 
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tommyboy047 wrote :
Speak for yourself, I think more men know about that then "you" think. Also, will I ever want it any other way, ABSOLUTELY!!! I for one do not always go for the climax, foreplay is just as important, if not more so, then going for the climax. Sometimes it is just enough for her to have one or me to have one and we both are just as exhausted afterward. You can also have many sessions of foreplay without climax and be just as satisfied and exhausted, although you do have mini climaxes throughout your sessions. There are so many ways to enjoy each other, climax is just one. Change it up and learn new ways to enjoy each other is always good. Now, this is just my experience and opinion. Did I say, I love foreplay as much as I enjoy going for the climax.
Umm, where did I ever mention that I did not immensely enjoy foreplay? I did not think that it needs to be noted that is is an all but essential precursor to climax. My post was merely a direct answer to the question "do men feel it when the woman climaxes?"
 
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Mokkesofie wrote :
Clitoris and G-spot orgasms have been mentioned here but there are more erotic spots than that.

The P-spot, which you can't stimulate directly as it is placed high up in the urethra, is the point that make some women squirt when having an orgasm.
I mostly do that when doing the cowgirl, a great position to stimulate that point indirectly.
And no, the liquid has got nothing to do with urine, it's a completely different liquid state and taste.

The U-spot consists of sensitive tissue on both sides of the urethra opening. Has to be touched lightly which gives very strong orgasms.

The A-spot, also called the AFE Zone, is at the very back of the vagina, between the uterus and the blatter. The area is very sensitive and gives fantastic orgasms - often several in a row.
The A-spot is a personal favourite of mine, after a row of those orgasms you think you have died and gone to heaven.
I thought of this post last night and had to resurrect it. I think I had your A spot last night. First time ever and wow! He kept asking if I was okay and I could not respond for a bit.

Mokkesofie you are my hero. I aspire to be just like you.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #107  November 23,2009, 11:43am

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You can have a great orgasm without having sex. Yeah. Woo Hoo.
 
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tjlpd wrote :
I thought of this post last night and had to resurrect it. I think I had your A spot last night. First time ever and wow! He kept asking if I was okay and I could not respond for a bit.

Mokkesofie you are my hero. I aspire to be just like you.
I am so glad to hear you found it, it really is amazing. I can't talk for a while after that one either. Good for you!
 
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Here's an alternative: first communication is key.

You can change the way you perform. For instance you can warm her up, taking your time and extending foreplay. Affection can be increased as your #1 goal now is to pleasure her, instead of focusing on your climax.

Increase the amount of affection, slow the pace down and listen to her breathing. When she's ready, tease her some more using your imagination. This part can be as much fun as being inside her.

You can then let her use your vanilla stick to stimulate herself. For as long at it takes if that is what she wants. She might want to finish this way or mount you. Or ask you to mount her. This takes a mind shift from looking at your climax as the end goal. To let's make her happy attitude and let her do what she wants.

I was with a woman who was traditional and inhibited. To my knowledge she didn't touch herself or achieve a climax by herself. After awhile the intense feeling you get from your climax is replaced by feeling good when you see she is more happy and relaxed. Depending on her openness, you can change your strategy.

She will want to thank you for being patient and will want to make you feel good. Your climax might be weaker but making her happy will more than make up for it. This technique works good for guys in their 40s and up.


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I dated a woman like that for a couple months. Honestly....I think I'd have a problem having a long term relationship with a woman if she wasn't having orgasms. It would really seem like something was missing from the relationship. You can say 'it's fine without them'....but I have to wonder if that's just trying to be happy 'with what you have'.

P.S. Does anyone know...are these private groups free from moderation? Or, are there different standards for moderation?
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
Interesting...if it does not bother her...why would it bother you??

Because they don't feel like they are doing their job- if they care. I rarely had one- and when I did they were 'minor' I wasn't even sure I had one. Then I dated this guy for a year whose goal it seemed was to give me multiples. He didn't quite make it the goal of multiples- but "WOW" is all I can say. I enjoyed sex before- now you can imagine how I feel about after have regular organsims. I don't think I could ever go back.
 
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