BobinFla is offline BobinFla Post #11  June 12,2009, 10:08pm
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Most men will have sex just to have it, and as long as a woman is offering it he will take her up on it, so therefore a woman can get sex anytime she wants. A man can get sex anytime he wants, all he has to do is go to the nearest cat house.

But when the statement is about sex that has some meaning to the individuals, both sides may not be able to find it as much as they want.
 
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Robecology is offline Robecology Post #12  June 14,2009, 3:18pm

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In our society, women do have (and rightfully so) the control over who starts the intimacy. They're the baby carriers after all, and it pays for them to be picky. This is not a bad thing; and if some women can't contact that man who wants her, she's not really searching very hard. Some women are beautiful but soooooo stupid; they post misspelled info which should turn off any guy (but we often let our little head guide our big head). If you want a money maker, you want to not only look good but use spell-check.
Ask any woman that you know has a post on a dating site how many men have contacted her, vs any man how many women have contacted him....my guess is about 50 to one (if you compare similar features ie, same relative "score", education, background, etc.). Sure there are those who are not gifted with great looks or a talent to express themselves, so they end up wanting and not getting; but if you polish your act, post your best pics, have someone read over your posts (or again, save it on a word doc, then once you've spell checked it, copy and paste) you should get the "pick" of the crop.
If I can add one thing on behalf of the 60+ group; give the older independent gents a chance if all you want is sex-recreation. The older, more experienced guys will surprise you ....
 
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Women are lucky in that way it's true. I know everytime I enter a bar I end up with a handful of men at the end of the night. I'm sure if I said yes thanks for the drink. I think I'm done here want to get a room? That most would come. That's generally what most men want. Even if they were looking for a relationship, why turn down the sex?
 
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YES...YES...YES. I agree! We Can get sex anytime that we want however, since we are more emotional creatures, we "pick and choose".
 
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Yes, women have total control of the sex in a relationship. Any woman even a not so average woman can walk into a bar and state "I want sex now!" and she could leave with someone; heck, even an attractive man. However, if an attractive man did the same, he might get drinks thrown in his face, rejected or he just might get lucky.

Watch TV...
Have you ever seen a commercial where a woman buys a guy a Lexus for Christmas; get the guy a diamond heart necklace etc? No
What about Vegas and brothels? It's all for the men, because guys have to work at it to have sex. It would be nice, but men do not get courted.

Of course women have more at risk...it's easier for them to get STD's or getting stuck with a child.
 
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CreolePrincess wrote :
At a party I once heard a statement that has stayed with me since I've heard it, and I'm wondering what other think about it. The statement was this: "Any woman can get sex at anytime if she really wants it, because there will always be a man willing to have sex with her even if he would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship. But the same isn't true for men. Any man can't always get sex at anytime if he really wants it." Does everyone agree with this? If yes, why so? And if the statement is true, what makes it true? Aren't there women out there who may want to have sex but can find no one willing?
No matter how unattractive the woman, there is always one desperate guy willing to have sex.

I am amazed at what I've seen over the years.

My standards don't change, regardless of how late it is or how much I've had to drink.

In terms of men, you either need to be more attractive than everyone else or have more money than everyone else to literally have women throw themselves at you, but I have seen it happen.

Of course, those types of women are probably not the type you want anyway because they have alterior motives.
 
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A miner looking for gold needs to search and put in some effort - if he just wants any old dirt then he just needs to bend down and pick some up - but it might just be dog do

I would always turn down casual sex - you never know where it has been.

Sadly the statement however seems to have some truth to it - and ladies ...you state that you see some women go home with some attractive guys - well if it is for casual sex then how attractive are they really? is that someone you would want?

hmmm
 
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BobinFla wrote :
Most men will have sex just to have it, and as long as a woman is offering it he will take her up on it, so therefore a woman can get sex anytime she wants. A man can get sex anytime he wants, all he has to do is go to the nearest cat house.

But when the statement is about sex that has some meaning to the individuals, both sides may not be able to find it as much as they want.
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Last edited by outlaw1; July 2,2009 at 12:39pm. Reason: I got this post mixed up with another one...my bad
 
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