curious_girl is offline curious_girl Post #71  January 30,2009, 9:27pm
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Look dude, you have two choices...Either marry the girl or find someone else.


Yeah right. That is the whole problem with this approach. Marry her so you can have sex with her and you've got bigger problems then that buddy. That is whats wrong with this "marriage before sex thing" it skews the relationship and introduces clouded reasoning. Look, if you think something magical happens when you have sex then you are sadly mistaken. Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but its just sex. Making love is "magical" but you can have that any time with the person you love. Over and over at any age no matter how many times you do it. Even with a wife, sometimes you will "make love" and sometimes you will just want to have sex. If you're a virgin you may have preconceived notions that will make this statement confusing. But i suspect that you will understand with time. I just never understood the whole mariage before sex thing. I suppose it has more weight to it if you're very religious, but I never could understand that stuff either.
 
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curious_girl,462228 wrote :

I have heard it said, by several men, that even bad sex is still pretty good. For a woman; this is not true. So you guys are lucky in that respect. I told my baby brother that he was entering "wet, dark hole" mode when he hit 15. I'm sure I don't have to expand too much on that.
hehehehe. Yes, I love it. I'd love to experience said things quite often.


[i][b]>And you have said you prefer to state the worst case scenario in all cases; because you're sick of optimists (like me) presenting the shiny happy side. Not a direct quote because goodness that was quite a few convo's ago.
 
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curious_girl,462228 wrote :


I have heard it said, by several men, that even bad sex is still pretty good. For a woman; this is not true. So you guys are lucky in that respect. I told my baby brother that he was entering "wet, dark hole" mode when he hit 15. I'm sure I don't have to expand too much on that.


hehehehe. Yes, I love it. I'd love to experience said things quite often.


[i][b]>And you have said you prefer to state the worst case scenario in all cases; because you're sick of optimists (like me) presenting the shiny happy side. Not a direct quote because goodness that was quite a few convo's ago.
 
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My comment. well, I'm going to quit in 10 minutes, here's my comment. I'm a virgin. I'm over 50. My time up to now was interested in the news, findin glittle clues on people who inadvertantly coerce others to commit acts that promote.... crime. I think crime is an abomination. People geet hurt. People die. You can stop people from dieing if you promote an atmosphere of love and (well, okay, people don't die from jsut no love) following the law. I have found many (I'm 54) people who are innocent of crimes because others spiritually force through hated acts to relieve tension, pressure and inability to hol back bad, negative, ungodly, hatred and instead comit bad things to feel better because they cooperate with the more powerful bad guy and feel good about that. SO, the idea is to love and stop crime. MAke sense? Okay 50 years of this and I'm ready for the bedroom. Now I hope others will be good so I don't have to think, "If Iam in bed with someone, will a bad guy hurt soemoen else?". I'm not a psychic. And Sex before marraige is fine, if you commit to marraige, thats what its for. And even though sex is meant only for children, I need it too, But theres 6 billion people in the world this day and 9 billion in a few years. How many kids can the earth feed? Right now the limit of usable agricultural landf is reaching its limit. Where else is there? The oceans?





SO, HAVE SEX AND MARRAIGE.
 
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Dude......just....dude......that ish is too heavy for this thread.......and that is all I'll say. But if I'm over 50 before I get some again; I'll be so insane it won't friggin matter. LMAO
 
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curious_girl,462616 wrote :

Dude......just....dude......that ish is too heavy for this thread.......and that is all I'll say. But if I'm over 50 before I get some again; I'll be so insane it won't friggin matter. LMAO
Shoot, if you go for longer than a few weeks and BOB doesn't do it for you, hit me up, I have been told that I have amazing hands and other skills.
 
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curious_girl,462616 wrote :


Dude......just....dude......that ish is too heavy for this thread.......and that is all I'll say. But if I'm over 50 before I get some again; I'll be so insane it won't friggin matter. LMAO


Shoot, if you go for longer than a few weeks and BOB doesn't do it for you, hit me up, I have been told that I have amazing hands and other skills.
It isn't finding some. It's meeting a guy that stimulates my brain; and engages my interest. Like most women; getting sex is no problem. I've just never been a woman to dive into bed with someone because the itch is there. BOB works in the in between. And in the fluctuations, Rob, in case you were wondering. LMAO
 
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