sidstu is offline sidstu Post #1  July 26,2010, 5:44pm
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I am a Catholic and as long as the person has good morals and values, I would never rule out a potential partner b/c she is not Catholic, but I find it is hard to find someone nice like that on this dating site or in general online dating websites' I find the people here ambivalent to what they are looking for and their profiles do not match them when you meet them in person. I am not saying everybody is like this but I have not found anyone with good family values and morals. Most of the peole I meet are going from the age of 40 to 20 as opposed to 41. Too many high school games. Please don't think I feel frustrated, I feel diappointed.
 
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winn is offline winn Post #2  July 26,2010, 6:57pm

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I understand exactly what you are saying. I am an adult who would like people to act in an adult manner but there are too many people looking for a partner in a way that resembles teens looking for a prom date.

It is disappointing but don't give up. There are people out there who are serious about who they are looking for and know what they really want. Keep praying and He will give you answers. Notice...i'm not saying He will give you the partner you desire because I'm not promising something I don't know. Only God can tell you want He wants for your life but His timing is so far off ours, so hold on.
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #3  July 27,2010, 2:43pm
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There are good ones out there. I'm 45, and I've been divorced for 4 years. It took me until just now to find a good one. Just keep your mind open as far as what your "type" is. Sometimes following what you usually are attracted to can rule out the kind of guys you really are more compatible with.
 
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Lcanada is offline Lcanada Post #4  July 27,2010, 7:22pm
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keep in mind, only some people are on dating sites which are usually secular.

people not matching their profiles may be one of those online games things,
or people just not knowing how to act.. and you wouldn't likely date them
in real life if you met them anyway.

I agree with WINN keep praying
 
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MItraveler is offline MItraveler Post #5  July 30,2010, 2:57pm
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I think we can all relate.

I was excited to meet a man earlier this year that was Lutheran and thought we could go to church together and to church functions. He tells me he fell away from the church years ago.

It is disappointing that people seem to have to bend the truth on their profiles. I would just be happy to meet a Christian man that attends church. Denomination is not that important to me as long as they believe in the trinity.

Don't give up. There is someone out there for all of us.
 
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