How do you find someone that puts Christ first?


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FeeltheSpirit is offline FeeltheSpirit Post #1  July 15,2010, 3:53pm
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I have mad love for Christ and I want a man that can share that with me. I believe that praying together helps a couple to stay together. In my church it is so beautiful to see couples that have been together for years so happy.
 
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Hi FeeltheSpirit. Welcome to the boards!

We've had several threads around here about couples praying together. Most agree it would be great to have a partner to share that intimate connection with God.

As far as fnding him goes. I don't think it's any different than finding a guy who likes Budha or fine wine or art or travel or (fill in the blank).... You put yourself in a position to meet those kind of guys and then you search like crazy until you find one who matches what your looking for.

Using a service like eH may help somewhat because it matches based on compatibility and religion is one of the factors. BUT, and this is a big one, just because someone labels themselves "Christian" doesn't mean they will have the same level of commitment to faith in God as you. Like with other values and traits, you'll have to be wise and judge by actions not words.

Best of luck to you in your search.
 
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Logomachy is offline Logomachy Post #3  July 15,2010, 8:50pm

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WYskywatcher wrote :
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As far as fnding him goes. I don't think it's any different than finding a guy who likes Budha or fine wine or art or travel or (fill in the blank).... You put yourself in a position to meet those kind of guys and then you search like crazy until you find one who matches what your looking for.
Good point. If I was looking for a Buddhist lady I wouldn't likely go looking in a Christian church. So likewise if I was looking for some lady who was mad about Jesus I would go looking in a church and probably a certain kind of church, as well.

I would imagine the guy or girl who is mad about Jesus would likely stick out in some way even in church. Find him and chase him down before some other lady who is looking for some guy who is mad about Jesus gets him first.
 
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Feel the spirit,
I'm with you. Don't have any useful advice but wanted to let you know you are not alone. May God Bless your search!
 
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Lcanada is offline Lcanada Post #5  July 16,2010, 8:01pm
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well .. here's what I think

Do pray about it. Do decide what is a must have in your relationship. Figure out some examples about what putting Christ first means and model that.

Truly though, don't compromise (get wishy washy) on what you essential believe. Be vocal about what your priorities are. Find an accounatbility parnter
if need be or a mentor couple in your realtionship search

We pray with you.


WYskywatcher - has some great points about using EH.... religion is one of the
ways they assess compatability. It may be most important and I don't think the
program weights them ???

PS: I would close a match that said buddha in place of Christian in the religion slot, but that's just me. (I too want similiar faith committment)
 
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PS: I would close a match that said buddha in place of Christian in the religion slot, but that's just me. (I too want similiar faith committment)
Not me. They could put anything they want in the religious slot or tell me to my face whatever they wanted about religion. As long as they are honest, compassionate, moral, decent, friendly, sexy, fun, witty, personal I don't care if they worship trees or Jesus or Buddha. It is all make believe, anyway.
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Logomachy wrote :
Not me. They could put anything they want in the religious slot ... It is all make believe, anyway.
Yeah we know your personal preferrence regards Christianity from other threads already... so why do you feel it necessary to voice opinon at all within a thread that is distinctly intended for and to those who would perhaps offer some actual good advice about "finding someone that puts Christ first"! Why do you need to voice your negative determination about the validity or value of Christian belief?

As I have said in other threads, I find it insulting, and I truly see no need for it or good from it, and I wish honestly that I could read a thread, any thread within this "Christian Singles" group that discusses a topic regarding "dating from a Christian prespective" without having to also read some comment to mailign my faith at the same time. Can you not simply cease from making petty comments of negativity in posts? A wise person once advised, "if you have nothing nice to say then do not say anything at all". Terrific wise words I wish some would follow, and refrain from smearing, criticizing others belief!
 
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niftypastfifty wrote :
Yeah we know your personal preferrence regards Christianity from other threads already... so why do you feel it necessary to voice opinon at all within a thread that is distinctly intended for and to those who would perhaps offer some actual good advice about "finding someone that puts Christ first"! Why do you need to voice your negative determination about the validity or value of Christian belief?

As I have said in other threads, I find it insulting, and I truly see no need for it or good from it, and I wish honestly that I could read a thread, any thread within this "Christian Singles" group that discusses a topic regarding "dating from a Christian prespective" without having to also read some comment to mailign my faith at the same time. Can you not simply cease from making petty comments of negativity in posts? A wise person once advised, "if you have nothing nice to say then do not say anything at all". Terrific wise words I wish some would follow, and refrain from smearing, criticizing others belief!
You have the right to post your same opinions over and over again. We already know where you are coming from and no one demands you stop posting so do me a favor butt out when it comes to my posting my ideas. If you don't like it ignore them and I will return the favor. Now stop trying to start fights here and stop play thread cop.
 
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BTW I date and am dating a Christian woman so I for sure have an interest, a real interest, in dating Christians. You don't have to be a Christian to date a Christian.
 
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You have the right to post your same opinions over and over again. We already know where you are coming from and no one demands you stop posting so do me a favor butt out when it comes to my posting my ideas. If you don't like it ignore them and I will return the favor. Now stop trying to start fights here and stop play thread cop.
I am not trying to "start fights"

your comment "its all make believe anyway" about my actual belief... now that IS STARTING THE FIGHT

Also, this is after all, as I keep pointing out a group about CHRISTIAN dating, is it really too much to ask or expect that Christians not be maligned within the posts??? Gee, I think my request is simple human courtesy really.

I have no problem with your opinons being different, I just have a problem with you so pointedly "putting my opinions down"!! Get it!!
 
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