MaryJaneShoes is offline MaryJaneShoes Post #1  November 14,2009, 2:17pm
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I've been on e-Harmony 5 months and the only thing "wierd" about my profile is that I'm a Christian - sold out, love Jesus variety. I have gotten zero attempts to contact from my matches and zero replies to my attempts.

The only people I've rejected out of hand have been a person who said something like: what is Sunday for but watching sports in front of the tube? And someone who was totally into health food & every response in his profile was about being fit or health food.

This is not the end of the world for me, since God has been very good to me & like the the hymn says, "All I have needed Thy Hand hath provided. Great is Thy Faithfulness Lord Unto Me". But it would be nice to have a companion in life & it doesn't seem to be happening.

Any ideas?
 
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notyet is offline notyet Post #2  November 15,2009, 9:07am
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MaryJaneShoes wrote :
...Any ideas?
yes. copy your profile responses and post them in the "using eharmony" section of the main boards. title it something like "please review my profile." many here have done that. i did it. it can at times be a little harsh. but the advise is priceless. you will also find there other profiles that have been posted for review.

good luck!
 
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I agree with you MaryJaneShoes, all you can be is true to your christianity and true with yourself and others. Be optimistic, constantly on the search seeking out possible matches and pray, pray, pray.
 
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