It's hard to find a christian man to date these days.


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Maybe it's my location but it seems single christian men are hard to find these days.
 
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You got that right. And even in the congregations that i attend there are no men i would really even consider dating. Its hard to be single these days. However I pray.
 
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I have been separated for 3 years and now finally going through a divorce and I agree that there doesn't seem to be many Christian men. I want someone to love the lord and that wants a committed wife that also loves the lord instead of being treated like a doormat.
 
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Through all of this I have learned that God is always going to be there. I don't understand why it is so hard for people to be honest and care about other peoples feelings besides their own. I know that all things happen for a reason but I'm ready for something good to happen. I will remember you in my prayers!
 
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LittleBlondie01 wrote :
Through all of this I have learned that God is always going to be there. I don't understand why it is so hard for people to be honest and care about other peoples feelings besides their own. I know that all things happen for a reason but I'm ready for something good to happen. I will remember you in my prayers!
thank you and you will be in mine as well girl! xoxo
 
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Gosh, that is so true where I live, too. Another thing I have discovered is Christian men on Christian dating sites do not act like a Christian man should. They are very vain and arrogant. It is like they do not want to admit they are Christian. Like they are ashamed of that.

I just pray and ignore the men that do not want to be Christian. It is frustrating. What can you do? These men have made a choice and you cannot change them or their minds. It is frustrating! Just pray, pray, pray and draw closer to God's word. That is what I have had to do.
 
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I wonder if Christian men look around the church wondering where all the good Christian women are too. I wonder if they think that the single women in their churches don't behave in a very Christ-like way either. Maybe there's a problem on both sides or a lack of true understanding between the sexes.

For the sake of generating some deeper discussion, what would a real Christian man look like? How should he behave? What qualities should he possess? What are his morals and values like? How should he act toward women? What should his priorities be?

Taking it further, are the things we think a Christian man is or should be really what God has truly called men to be? These questions could also be asked of ourselves as Christian women. And would the answers given truly reflect who God has designed and called us to be? As men and women, are we truly reflecting the unique ways in which we are made in the image of God and how that should lead us into right relationship with each other and the wider world?

I would love to hear some thoughts on this as we go deeper in our journey as Christians and fellow travellers in this life.
 
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I have often found that Christian men who possess a deep and abiding faith don't always come in the prettiest package. And by pretty I don't mean handsome, but "orthodox" or "nice."
 
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lindseyk wrote :
I have often found that Christian men who possess a deep and abiding faith don't always come in the prettiest package. And by pretty I don't mean handsome, but "orthodox" or "nice."
I actually like my with a little bit of mischief in them!
 
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lindseyk wrote :
I have often found that Christian men who possess a deep and abiding faith don't always come in the prettiest package. And by pretty I don't mean handsome, but "orthodox" or "nice."
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I actually like my with a little bit of mischief in them!
Me too. My SO is a self-professed reformed bad boy and I like the fact that he is a little rough around the edges - not "nice," in other words. He's lived through some very difficult times and has seen things I can't even imagine, but he is truly devoted to the Lord and knows that where he's been has shaped much of who he is today. As he says, those who have lost much, love much. I wouldn't change him or his past for the world.
 
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