goldenpup2000 is offline goldenpup2000 Post #1  October 19,2008, 12:20am
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.....if a woman is a virgin just from looking at her? I mean at their first meeting, without the woman coming right out and saying it.


I know that this may not sound like an appropriate question to ask here, and I appolgize if it isn't, but I do have my reasons for asking. Mainly because I have had a few men tell me that they can tell right away, wether a woman is a virgin. If this is true, then what is it they are seeing that tells them?
 
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On the contrary, I think this is a great place for a question like this. I am not a guy so I can't really answer you but there are all kinds of guys on here, I am sure, who have an answer. Right Guys! Let us here from you, we gals want to know. I AM GOING TO WATCH THIS TOPIC...(smile)
 
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errr...ummm....uhhhhh


lol *looks for the other guys* You got me on this one, I'm only wise in certain areas...this unfortunately is not one of those. *ahem* We won't go into why the region of dating is fairly unknown to me but if you wish to truly know I'll tell you via message. IN the meantime...Where's Mr.Right at...
 
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No they can't unless they have the gift of knowing all things, and I think that one is reserved for the Lord himself.
 
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They mayBELIEVE they know if a woman is a virgin, but no,it's nothing more than a guess.
 
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Sorry, but I think this is a weird thingfor a man to say to a woman.Maybe close male/female friends MIGHT discuss this, once. To me for a man to bring up such a topic (to a woman)is an effortto find out something that is none of his business. Or, perhaps, an attempt to break down modesty barriers.


Funny,men aren't talked about in this way. God doesn't have a doublestandard.
 
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That's like some wierd form of sexual rather than racialprofiling. If we could tellthings that intimate about a person by sight, we never could be decieved.But I think we all know that's certainly not the case.I agree with jsbach. They are just trying to fish for info by breaking down some barriers.Heaven only knows what the next topic would be.


Actually, guys are talked about in this way. Unfortunately the conclusion is that a male virgin of a certain ageis gay and a female older virgin is a prude. How sad. I've evenheard of fathers trying to get prostitutes for their sons to "break them in" (Sick and from the pit of hell). I've never heard of the same being done for daughters, thank God!
 
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no, anyone that claims they can are just taking a 50/50 guess. Men have as much ability to tell if a woman is a virgin as they do of telling if a woman is at "that time of the month"... NFI
 
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perhaps what they were meaning was that the outward appearance, manner, clothing, looks, bust-size, tightness of jeans etc. might lead them to make certain assumptions. You know, like if a girl is classified as "hot" or "a dog". You know, all those qualities that are soooo very important to a good relationship!
 
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What about a man checking to see if she is wearing a diamond ring? If she's wearing one, don't get involved in her. On the other hand, if she's wearing a lot of rings and jewelry, it can be arduous to know if she's available or not.
 
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