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dimension,303340 wrote :

ahhh yes. I've been propositioned many times by the "other team" or should that be the "same team", because I'm 30, single, slim and neat
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J_Aeon,299895 wrote :

errr...ummm....uhhhhh


lol *looks for the other guys* You got me on this one, I'm only wise in certain areas...this unfortunately is not one of those. *ahem* We won't go into why the region of dating is fairly unknown to me but if you wish to truly know I'll tell you via message. IN the meantime...Where's Mr.Right at...
LOL....You are funny.
 
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Looking for a hookup?...Maybe if you were walking on Hollywood Ave! Some women arenot as timid or shy as other women. Perhaps if they were that might be a clue to the guy?
 
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A coworker of mine said the same thing.We told him he was deceiving himself but I'll share his psycology with you (it is absurd, I warn you). He first looks at how she crosses her legs. He is convinced that virgins naturally cross at the ankle when speaking to a man and nonvirgins tend to cross at the knee. He aslo believes that virgins stand with less "sexual confidence" and often look intimidated or unaware of their sexuality. The last thing he looks for is how close she stands to men. He says virgins tend to stand noticeably to close or too far away. It doesnt make sense, but he claims to never have been wrong. FYI, he is a reformed pimp and explained how he chose his women.
 
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chickwithbrains,303358 wrote :

dimension,300610 wrote :


no, anyone that claims they can are just taking a 50/50 guess. Men have as much ability to tell if a woman is a virgin as they do of telling if a woman is at "that time of the month"... NFI


Actually - that time of the month could be a lot more obvious - maybe she's in an unusually bad mood?
I think a PERCEPTIVE man can tell if a woman is having her period or not...there are very 'tell-tale' signs that, if a man knows a woman well, should be able to 'pick up' on! LOL- couldn't pass that one up!
 
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Is this a trick question? Only way to tell is if she just walked out the front door of the Vestal Virgin's temple. But still, that's only a clue.
 
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I think that girls who dress 'like a slut' are either having sex, or want to...but if a person is wearing 'normal' clothes, I don't know of any ways to tell...





but I have heard some interesting ideas on here.
 
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goldenpup2000, wrote :

.....if a woman is a virgin just from looking at her? I mean at their first meeting, without the woman coming right out and saying it.


I know that this may not sound like an appropriate question to ask here, and I appolgize if it isn't, but I do have my reasons for asking. Mainly because I have had a few men tell me that they can tell right away, wether a woman is a virgin. If this is true, then what is it they are seeing that tells them?
A man who says they know is definitely guessing.
 
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I would disagree to some point...


I think that it depends on the female and also on how observant a guy is as well. Even then I will agree that it is nothing more than an educated guess. I don't believe that it's too difficult to tell when a christian girl has recently lost her virginity - she just doesn't act the same. Many girls/women who have recently lost it will have a broken look in their eyes even if their actions say something different. Some females wear their thoughts on their sleeve (so to speak) and are easily readable, others not as much.


Ultimately a guy cannot simply "know" - it all comes down to a guess. I will say that just because a guy may suspect that a girl has lost her virginity does not mean he is "judging" her... to judge her would be to look downward on her for it, not simply knowing it.
 
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