Should We Date Outside Our Race If We Can't Find Love Of A Black Men Or Women ?

THe Reason whyI asked this is becouse of the last guyI dated.Before we even got to our first date. He would tell me how he would go to a White female ina hart beat if he can't find a black women to his standerd. But just Any White female she had to be from another county he claims that all of us women in amerca is just alike. (A**H***) I Contued to Datedhim Why becouseI over looked his faults and he was every thingI wanted in a man Educated,Travel the world,Black man and his pants didn't sagg.We did not worked out but i now im think should i date another race to find love.Would you?

THe Reason whyI asked this is becouse of the last guyI dated.Before we even got to our first date. He would tell me how he would go to a White female ina hart beat if he can't find a black women to his standerd. But just Any White female she had to be from another county he claims that all of us women in amerca is just alike. (A**H***) I Contued to Datedhim Why becouseI over looked his faults and he was every thingI wanted in a man Educated,Travel the world,Black man and his pants didn't sagg.We did not worked out but i now im think should i date another race to find love.Would you?

THe Reason whyI asked this is becouse of the last guyI dated.Before we even got to our first date. He would tell me how he would go to a White female ina hart beat if he can't find a black women to his standerd. But just Any White female she had to be from another county he claims that all of us women in amerca is just alike. (A**H***) I Contued to Datedhim Why becouseI over looked his faults and he was every thingI wanted in a man Educated,Travel the world,Black man and his pants didn't sagg.We did not worked out but i now im think should i date another race to find love.Would you?

A person's ethnic makeup is not the same thing as culture. Skin tone is not the overriding factor in culture, it is environment and shared experiences/beliefs.

The black boy who is surrounded by middle class whites who just so happen to fall for a white woman is a running joke in Hollywood. In the real world black men do exist in those types of environment. It is reasonable to assume that they would be attracted to the women that is sitting/living next to them.

(NO RESEARCH DONE ON MATTER) I assume that if you break down Black Male/White Female interracial couples, you will start to see a strong correlation among the black males being raised in middle class/diverse environments. They would be able to identify culturally more with suburban white females than with a lot of black people.

For women who want a man who can relate to their experiences/culture, you have to place yourself in environments that you will come into contact with people of similar cultural makeup.

If you question the men on Eharmony and the lack of black men, you must understand Eharmony's marketing is geared toward women. Just like clubs advertise Ladies Night to entice men to show up, Eharmony promote "soul mates" to get women to flock to their site.

On occasion, I see advertisements to male audiences, but I never see them targeted to black male audiences. It could be there and we just have not noticed it.

The question you have to ask yourself, is not if Eharmony is doing a good job reaching you but if it is doing a good job reaching potential mates.

39% of black men are married.
1 out of 11 black men who marry, go interracial.

29% of black women are married.
1 out of 28 black women who marry, go interracial.

43% of Blacks never married, compared to 28% of all races.

(stats court of BlackDemographics.com)

As a black woman looking at those numbers, it should tell you that you are in the fight of your life if you are exclusively interested in finding a black male to marry. If you do not open the playing field there is over a 40% chance you will never get married. As you age the chance of marriage decrease.

Be the super successful lady that you are, but realize that you might have to change some of your life goals.