Beniba is offline Beniba Post #1  November 21,2009, 7:55pm
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I think mature women can and should still be hot and sexy. I wonder how we can get older men to agree? I feel like older women are put on a shelf as if they are of no value but to be givers of advice and grandmothers. The older a man gets the more he seems to be attracted to younger women. Many of these older single men would not consider someone even of their own age, even those men who already have children. No matter how attractive and well rounded an older woman might be it seems she is more often than not, passed up for a younger and possibly less attractive younger woman. Would you go to the extent of doing plastic surgery (face lift, lipo. etc) to attract a man or to keep a man if you already have one?
 
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I was thinking that too, but I found one older guy who seems to get that older women are exactly what he wants. I wish more guys were that "mature" in their preferences, but hey, it only takes one.
 
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Diann1950 wrote :
I was thinking that too, but I found one older guy who seems to get that older women are exactly what he wants. I wish more guys were that "mature" in their preferences, but hey, it only takes one.
Yes, a few older men do get it, but that's the problem - a few. Good to know you found one of them, I hope it works out for you
 
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So do I, two months, about 10 dates and daily emails and so far it only gets better. We both have busy schedules and that may not be a bad thing, it gives us a chance to catch our breath.
 
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