salemsmom is offline salemsmom Post #1  August 30,2008, 5:36am

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My favorite first question when I get to open communication. It lets me know how open a person is and whole lot more. The most interesting one I got was a guy who hadn't really thought about it until I asked and realized it was his babysitter when he was just a little guy. He seemed to remember details but couldn't understand what she got out of it... I know... He also never told anyone. Today, it would be in the newspaper.


Okay, mine... I was 30 years old! Yep! My parents raised me right! I am proud of my lack of promiscuity, was always popuar and happy, didn't feel left out, none of my friends were sexually active in high school until maybe a few the last year, but we didn't discuss it. I am saddened by the sexual activity of very young kids today. My seventh graders for example) What do they have to look forward to and how do they ever find the value of intimacy when they trade it like baseball cards? I am a teacher and see it everyday... so sad...


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first time was the proverbial, in the woods overlooking the stream. I was 12 and didn't even know where it was...somehow i thought it was just below the belly button. Learned fast and didn't make too much of a fool that night. It was the age when we were discovering what and why. I have a daughter now and i hope that she doesn't date guys like i was. I have said it many times, we would have been convicted of date rape today....no. meant maybe and maybe was definitely a YES. I try to tell my son now to be more respectful, i hope he listens.
 
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I didn't until I was 20 and had dated my boyfriend at the time for a year and a half. He was very careful because he had an older sister who got pregnant at 18 and gave a baby up for adoption so that affected him. He didn't want the risk of that happening to him. We also did end up marrying.
 
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Front seat of a Corvair, not good with two tall people. Just after he got a call from the draft board, remember those days? Fortunately or unfortunately we were together for four years, but never got to the ring and a date state so I moved on.
 
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Its weird, I can't remember the name of someone I just got introduced to 5 minutes ago, but I remember every single detail of my first time. And it was 34 years ago. I've often wondered if she ever remembers that night like I do. It sounds cliche, but it was in the back of her father's chevy van, in their driveway. They lived out in the country. We were both 16 and neither one of us had a clue what we were doing, but we kind of did...you know? There was countless hours of what I guess you would call foreplay as an adult. (We called it dry humping back then) Finally, neither one of us could stand it anymore and we ripped each others clothes off and everything just kind of fit where it was supposed to. After everything was said and done, we went for a long walk down a country road that I wished would last forever, holding hands, not talking, stopping every 2 minutes to make out some more. She was the best kisser ever. I wrapped my arms all the way around her body and still I couldn't hold her close enough. I wanted to climb inside her. I remember the smell of her breath, her perfume, the taste of salt on her neck, how she held my face when she stared at me...every single detail. I would have gladly stepped in front of a bullet for that girl. Then POOF!...my dad got transferred two months later and I never saw her again. That was back when phones charged for "long distance" calls, so we didn't get to talk much and it just went away. She's nothing but a fond memory now but it is one that will make me smile every time I think of it.
 
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